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Lately I've been dating alot of girls and I noticed that I only date girls with family/mental problems. All of the girls I either went out with, or desired, cuts themselves on occasion. I don't know I it's a coincidence or I actually like that. Is it normal?
I used to cut. I'm male. I found a self-harm "support chat room" thinking those people were like me. I've never been wronger in my life. They all falsely accuse men of rape when they don't get what they want and the relationship ends. If you knew the extent of what I've been through as a result of looking for help there, believe me... You would run the other way AS FAST AS YOU FECKING COULD... If only I had a warning of the fact almost every one of them is an attention-seeking rapist whore. YOU HAVE been given adequate warning. If you don't listen to me, there WILL come a day - I promise you - when you learn this for yourself... They use each of their victims as bait for the next one. Please, for the sake of your life... stay the hell away from those rapists. You've been warned, friend.
Here i am sitting here right now.. With my wig on, my stinking hairy armpits smellin' better than ever..
Cutting myself, cutting deeper than ever with a golden spoon.
Find me... Find me tonight, in my room.
I got them to a stable point. I didn't cure them completely but I did help them none the less. And I didn't break up with them after I helped them, it was her breaking up with me the last couple times. I thought if I broke up with her then they'd get depressed or suicidal. Not because I think I'm the best thing that happened to them or anything, but because they're unpredictable.
maybe you got some mental problems thats you dont know.....and thats why you connect with them ?
I went to wikipedia, to get my own answers. I don't need someone with a phd to tell me that I've got something wrong with me. But lets face it, if you or I had gone into a physicians office or a psychiatrist, they'd give us pills or tell us to go out and enjoy our lives. Both great forms of advice but, drugs only numb the pain while trying to have fun (for me) just ends up blowing up in my face and i recluse myself from society.
My sibling has several cuts on her arms. Reason was abuse, mental; possibly sexual too. A downward spiral. Here i am trying to make sense of it all and se if i can find a solution for myself and my family. Yet here i am, lost and confused like the rest of us
You took the words right out of my mouth. What should I do about this possible fetish?
I feel a little weird about calling it a fetish, but regardless...
I don't know what you should do. When i found out from my sibling it was already too late, best i could do then and now is say don't do it again.
I want to say that you like being there to pick up the pieces, perhaps this is why you go out with or desire women who have some kind of mental anguish, practice self mutilation.
What happened to the women you used to date? People with unstable mentality isn't the kind of thing that turns me on but I'm starting to realize myself that I'm not all there and would prefer someone whom i can relate with back and forth.
I do try to help them. One of them was even suicidal. They tell me their problems and I'm jut there to listen and hug them when they need it. I'm thinking maybe they make me feel important and I crave that. Or maybe it's just when girls talk to me seriously like they could trust me is what I crave.
Do you try to help them with their problems? If so it could be that you're drawn to them because you want to make things better for them.