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I'm a guy, and I've done stuff with another guy on more than one occasion. I'd like to think i'm straight, but it feels amazing when I'm doing things with another male. The thing is, afterwards, when I 'come', I feel disgusted with myself... IIN?
You might just be bi-curious or even bisexual. Don't stress over this though, what you get up to is no ones business but your own and it doesn't matter what gender you get up to stuff with, so long as you, yourself are okay with it.
in my opinion, i like to think its normal.
for i have also done things with another male and felt much the same way afterwards.
its weird isn't it?...
Wow you guys are unbelievably immature, I just love homophobic answers. For the serious answers, thank you.
I'm the exact same way, I've been with a guy, giving oral to a man is like nothing else. It's amazing, but I've always lived a straight life, never found a guy attractive and prided myself on picking up women at bars etc. After I finish with a guy I'm grossed out and ashamed. After I finish the thought of me with a guy sickens me. When guys are horny anything goes, I gel as tho after I cum, I'm normal again. It's very weird. Now I just say I'm bi to myself cause it makes more sense, even tho I feel 100% straight. Noone I know would think I liked giving head, not in a million years, my gf knows about my giving head and she still says I'm straight with a big sex drive. Any guy that says they haven't been turned on by the thought of doing gay acts is straight up lying. It's natural Hunan behavior to get turned on by different things. What makes you gay is having emotional feelings toward the same sex. Fooling around with both sexes tells me your living life to it's fullest, and your comfortable with your sexuality.
Trust me it's all normal to feel guilty or disgusted with yourself. Most people do. Feeling disgusted with yourself just comes from the things you heard over your life time saying how wrong it is and how you're a bad person for it. Trust me once you become your own individual thinker, the thought of disgust in yourself will go away.
I think we are all gay to one extent or another it is entirely up to us how much we act on it or not. If we allow ourselves to be open to the possibility even one time then the door is open for more times to be sexual with another male. Especially if the first time was a good experience. Men know what men like and what makes a mans penis feel good that only makes sense then why men or boy's could be sexually attracted to each other. I once had a boy when I was a boy hold my cock in his hand and it got hard as a rock in his hand I could feel it grow in his hand and it tickled so much that I came without him doing anything. But another time I explored even more and found that I enjoyed having a male strike matches near my cock made me even more turned on and I shot my cum even further.
As long as you enjoy being with a guy . I think you are gay but just does not want except it. Just embrace it have fun with it <3
believe whatever will keep u from suicide. don't listen to the mental retards who will predictably be all HeRp DErp U DA Gay HAHHAH. LOL BECAUSE THEY'RE LITERALLY CHILDREN or worse : religious
I think u struggle allot with the diffrent feelings of emotions when u are doing stuff with the oposite sex, i recon that it is completly normal, but in my eyes u are gay. Not a bad thing though.
Straight up (no pun intended!) sounds like you're going through the process of discovering that you are gay. The feelings afterwards are your own judgement. Once you accept that you're gay, you won't feel that any longer. If you're younger than 25, perfectly normal. Over 30, somewhat normal. Over 40, you should get an Oscar!
you are probably in dinal, and don't want to except that you are gay because of all the stress and hassle that comes with it, but in the end of the day, you have to live with yourself so don't worry about labels or judgement just be yourself and have fun! you only get to live once
i know what you mean i feel the same way . its fucked up i dont feel right doing it cuz i love the ladys but just dont lison to thes ppl ur sta8 as any othere man . u just got the ball to say it and they dont ....Good luck