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Okay so i dont mind if people touch me in any place, even if they roll over on me. I LOVE BEING TOUCHED! My arms, back, shoulder, poked, groped, prodded, massaged. Should it bother me as an aware human being? Or is just normal?
I like being touched by people I like. I don't like being touched by people I don't like... I think this applies to 99% of the population.
It's normal to enjoy physical contact. Don't let others take advantage of you because of this, but I think it's great that you enjoy this. I personally love cuddling with people, especially the ones I'm attracted to, and it seems that most other people I've met are the same way as well. I mean, I personally can't date someone who doesn't enjoy a lot of hugging and cuddling, to the point that it's honestly one of my biggest deal-breakers. In fact, one of my happiest memories of all time was sitting with a girl I had really strong feelings for with my arms around her and my head on her shoulder. She leaned her head against mine, and we sat like that, just talking, for the better part of the evening. We never actually dated, but words simply cannot express how happy I was just to have had that experience. There's just something about having physical contact with another warm body that simply nothing else can match; that's why you see so many people hugging anyway. So I say it's absolutely normal and absolutely great :)
Are you female? It's weird either way but I think it would be much weirder if you were a guy. If you are a girl it's not THAT strange.