Is it normal to like being hit on at bars?

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I'm newly married, first of all. And when we (my husband and I, or our friends) go out and a guy tries to pick me up, it's such a confidence boost that I've started to kind of crave it. Like if I were to go out one night and not get hit on, I would probably be really disappointed. I have absolutely no intention of going home with any of them, and as soon as they say anything about buying me a drink or meeting their friend I say no and flash the ring.... But it still feels awesome to feel sexy. IIN?

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago

    Yes it's flattering. But u r married and shouldn't try to get
    This attention from other men

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ^ This. You shouldn't feel the need to get anyone elses attention when you have a husband.

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  • lol_bamf
    13 years ago

    Your husband needs to pay more attention to you if you see attention from drunken strangers.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    13 years ago

    enjoying being flattered is one thing

    but putting out "i'm available" signals when you're married.... what exactly are you looking for in these men?

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  • ayanami1234
    13 years ago

    Yeah normal. Who doesn't want to feel sexy! Married or not! Just stay in control of the situation.

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  • hotchickie81
    13 years ago

    I'm taken and would never go home with someone else, but it does feel good to be noticed and hit on at bars :)

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    It's nice to feel sexy...you should realize you can get that from your new husband and quit being an attention whore.

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  • bestPPL
    13 years ago

    Like omg you should totally be a stripper!!!

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  • sparrowfeed
    13 years ago

    lol ya i love that. although i wouldn't risk it if i was going to a club with my BF.
    right now, we're not so far into the relationship that i don't go out to clubs on my own, with my friends, but it's starting to become a hassle when--among the throng of stupid, short, immature losers--you're craving your man.

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