Is it normal to like a girl that ingnores you?

I liked a girl for 2 years and she ingnored me. Finally one day we talked and she gave me her number. We started texting each other for over 2 weeks. She started to like me but then i started to dislike her... She wanted to talk to me but i wasnt as interested as before. But then one day i grabbed her ass just for fun and she liked it and smiled. Then i was sure that she liked me. One day she called and wanted to go out with me, she asked me where i was and i said: "Im buying clothes right now" and she responded: "Ok we can meet up if you're not going home" Then i lied and said that i was going home. But then i deleted her number and didnt talk to her anymore. Then i thought about those 2 years i wasted fantasizing on that girl. It was not worth it.

Did i do the right choise in deleting her number? By the way, she has a boyfriend now.

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  • FocoUS

    Normal. That's why guys suck, all the want is the chase.

    Deleting her number is harsh. What happened to friendzone?

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  • Possibilities

    I do the same thing. When girls that I've been interested in for the longest time start to like me, it turns me away for some reason. I'm glad you posted because I didn't know if it was normal myself, haha. But I would have kept her number, you never know what might happen.

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  • You learned, that's all. Girls are never "worth it". Now you know.

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  • Ldizzy1234

    Yeah, I think you did the right thing. If it wasn't meant to be it wasn't meant to be. She doesn't sound worth it.

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  • joybird

    Put more simply - you only want what you can't have OR the fun is in the chase.

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  • Possibilities

    You're good.

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  • AngAnders112

    You're more in love with the idea of obsessing over that which you do not have. And once you can obtain that thing that is that which you cannot have, that thing that was causing the obsession suddenly dies. It's like that.

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    • Wow you're right! Its like being hungry and wanting to eat a bigmac.. But when u eat the bigmac u regret it cause it makes u fat.

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