Is it normal to like 2 guys at once?

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I have liked this one guy for about 3 months now. He has a girlfriend and it seems like he does not want to change that but he flirts with me or atleast it seems like he flirts with me. The only thing is I cannot distinguish if it is just him messing around or if he may be trying to give me signals to see if I give signals back. I have tried to but not make it to obvious incase he was just messing around. I have talked to friends about it and they say I may need to start looking around if he doesn't come around soon. Well I started looking and I found this one guy I am starting to like but I feel that it is wrong but some of my friends have said they didn't think it was so I need other people opinions. is it normal to like 2 guys at once?

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    You're weighing your options. When you're weighing your options it's normal to like two different people at the same time. You just have to figure out now, who you really want, and if they want you. From the sounds of it, I wouldn't pursue the guy who has the girlfriend. If he's willing to be with you, he'll break up with her soon enough. If he hasn't already then he's probably not going to.

    Don't let other opportunities pass you by. If you wait for him, you might be losing out on someone else.

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    • @mar
      13 years ago

      I feel that if the guy with the girlfriend does break up with his girlfriend for you it is not a good thing. Mostly because he could easily do it to you once you two get together. Not only that but if he has a girlfriend and he is blatantly flirty with you, that's sketchy too. Probably don't want to deal with that mess!

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  • theFinder
    8 years ago

    I think that's completely normal. Heck, i must have my heart divided by now in a million crushes... I guess 'liking' is actually something that doesn't necessarily leave our head, meaning, since we as human beings can start liking someone just as easily as we start disliking them, most of these feelings end-up being some kind of natural stimulus to creating relationships with other people. Don't worry too much about liking multiple people

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  • IrishPotato
    12 years ago

    I have a solution.
    Do them both at once.

    But my real advice is...
    Stop flirting with the dude who has a gf.
    That's just vile and mean.

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  • Treez
    12 years ago

    It's normal if ur hot

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  • Andyailin
    13 years ago

    Forget about the one that is in a relationship

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    When you're single, you can do whatever you want. Hell, do heroin with a tranny in a back alley. Or, like two guys. Nobody can say anything.

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  • TheIntellect
    13 years ago

    Women are sexy.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    I like aprox ~680million women at once.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      greedy

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      • [Old Memory]
        13 years ago

        It's the ~ I find disturbing...

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  • Breazygirl
    13 years ago

    As long as you aren't cheating it's fine I like 6

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  • ninehalf338
    13 years ago

    I've DATED 2 guys at once!!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Oh. This is LIKE two guys at once.

    I thought it was like two guys AT ONCE.

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  • Track_runner123
    13 years ago

    @ Ldizzy1234

    thank you. Im really trying to start to like the other guy but we rarley talk and im nervous to talk to guys especially older ones so it is a little hard for me.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    who knows

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