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I lied to my boyfriend and told him I wouldn't smoke. I've lied quite a few times about it and he has forgiven me but he moved schools recently and to help me cope I've been smoking again. Is it normal to hide these things?
This is a yes and no. I understnad that you are afraid of him getting mad at you but it's better to tell the truth. Come on he's your boyfriend, if you care about him that much you need to tell him.
I don't even try to hide my bad habits anymore.if u don't like it then kick rocks is what I say.
I lied to my gf, about smoking for 6 full months and after she found out she broke up, not because of the smoking but this lie just destoyed our trust to each other.
if you want to smoke then smoke, its your life, he should accept you as such
Dont lie, im sure he would want a smoker girlfriend rather than a lying one. Just tell the truth, it seems impossible to quit and your sorry. If he doesn't want you enough to be supportive of your quitting smoking he probably isn't worth your time.
Well it's completely normal to lie about it and to struggle with quitting. That's the most normal thing in the world.
Deciding to lie to your boyfriend though... can lead to some difficult things for the relationship. I think it's better to just be honest and let him know that you're trying but he's already getting your best, and you hope he can accept that about you.
Lol I Love this post ! I dont know if its normal though. I quite smoking years ago but a few years ago I started again. I tried hiding it from my husband but that didnt last long. I'm still hiding it from my kids. I smoke in the morning after everyone leaves for school, than again at night when all is asleep. The whole thing is just silly but I enjoy it.