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Today, I told my guy-friend (who happens to be my ex's best friend)that I lost my virginity. I just thought, you know..maybe they'd think it was cool or whatever? Idk, i feel stupid.
I'm 19 soon to be 20yr old virgin and I let it be known that I am a virgin when ppl ask me about it. Sure ppl make fun of me but at least I'm not lying to myself. Idk y ppl think sex is so cool and that every1 shud b having it.
It is pretty normal to hide the truth about one's sexual experience (or lack thereof). But you shouldn't be ashamed of being a virgin, nobody worthy of being your friend will look down on you for it.
I used to lie about being a virgin because I was embarassed and didn't want to admit that the reason was because I wasn't ready. I even lied to my boyfriend about it, but he could tell straight away. I was embarassed and thought he would think something was wrong with me if he knew. I regret it totally, I feel like Easy A still to this day! Haha
i know what you mean i dont know y people think its cool to lose ur virginity probly just another way to seem superior but its best not to lie thats how humours get started and if they find out its a lie god help ya mate :)
The fact that you told us that the person you shared this lie with was your ex's best friend kind of says it all don%%u2019t you think? Well, to me it sounds like you are still hung up on your ex in some way and wanted to get at him in some way. I'm guessing you are young and don%%u2019t really have any intention of having sex any time too soon. Don%%u2019t stress it%%u2019s not a race, and really you are not any cooler if you have sex... Don't feel stupid either. I don%%u2019t really think there is anything to feel stupid about, just move on and don%%u2019t go telling anymore of those little lies. :}
Thats a quite strange thing to say, what made you say that? thats what you need to ask yourself and how it made you feel. You can either tell him the truth or just leave it.