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my boyfriend does this to me and I like it so I wanna show him how it feels. He likes to experiment but he feels kind of awkward about letting ME do it to HIM. Is it really gay if a GIRL is doing it to you ?
| yes, it's very normal. | 392 | |
| no, that's gay. | 76 |
Not only you can try fingering him gently but you should also try to lick his butthole too (and maybe shoving the tip of your tongue into his ass, if you wish and he approves)... I bet he will love it and he will prompt you to do it again and again in the near future... Trust me, ain't no harm in experimenting with the human body's hotspots and love zones, this will add a lil bit of spice in your everyday common sex life!!! I'm Male, straight all the way. ;)
It makes no sense for it to be "gay".
Seriously, if it gives you both pleasure then that's great. A girl doing it to you would be less gay anyway, surely?
While I wouldn't say normal I found I USED to like it espically through my teen years something about it maybe its only a turn on because its different but I just hope you find something new just try not to go to far out!
I'm a straight guy and I quite like it when my girlfriend fingers me in the bum.
I wish she'd let me do it to her, because it would definitely turn me on, but she's just not comfortable with it.
I recommend giving him a blowjob while fingering his ass. Use lots of lubricant.
When you have an orgasm, your anus contracts. If there's something in it (like a finger) holding it open while this happens, it can intensify your orgasm.
It isn't necessarily gay, but it is normal not to want things up there.