Is it normal to let worry take over your life?

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Okay, so I worry, I have bursts of worrying and bursts of happiness, the worry usually comes when im tired or someone says something or when im alone with my own thoughts.
Right now my hair is bothering me, I wish I could style it, and I wish it was perfect but it isn't. My hairline isn't straight or normal and my forehead is big... but it hasn't always bothered me.. just about for a year on and off its bothered me. Im drawn to everyones heads and how perfect there hair is.. there are girls that style and dye there hair I wouldn't know what to do with a hairspray. I don't want massive hair, and my hair is beautiful when it plays ball..
But it also worries me because at 22 ive never had a boyfriend. Im scared about sex and even kissing.. im very shy and to myself and I am trying to be more social but its hard very hard and looking at guys and thinking about kissing its like I don't know weird to me. Don't get me wrong I want to kiss a guy and have kids and it all. But im scared i'll never be enough for someone cause ive no idea.. my hair has no style and im quiet. Who would even approach me? Oh yeah no one. While everyone around me is dating im like yeah here single.. not even trying to date. I just thought one day I'd meet someone you know.. for me.. :(

Or do I need to stat dating now..?

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    8 years ago

    for fucks sake if thats the biggest worry in yalls life id say yall gots it made

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    I think you're being way too hard on yourself. I'd like to encourage you to not compare your insides to the outsides of others. Maybe other people look like they're always having a perpetual good hair day, but that's not necessarily the case. Maybe you could try to find a decent hairstylist and go from there?

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    Its pretty normal here

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  • answerme
    8 years ago

    You shouldn't force your self to date just cause others do. Live how you wanna. If you want to shave your hair bald. Do it you should care about you being happy before making others happy

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    All that crap over your hair?
    Chop it all off and go buy half a dozen wigs. Problem solved.

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