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My boyfriend wants to go to a strip club with his mates for a night out. I'm unhappy about this for obvious reasons, but I don't want to stop him from having life experiences - and he's not gonna cheat on me, just looking at sexy women.
Would it be normal for me to let him go?
Serene, you seem really insecure. I've read a lot of your posts and they all insist that you shouldn't have friends of the opposite sex, watch porn, or even look at another person while in a relationship.
How old are you? And does your boyfriend feel like he's in some kind of relationship prison?
If you cannot trust you bf then you shouldn't be with him. Men are visual creatures, there is a difference between looking and touching. I think going to a strip club is fine, lap dances though do cross that line. Tell him to go to the club and you will give him the lap dance when he comes home.
tons of girls let there men go to strip clubs and tons of girls dont. so either way you are perfectly normal.
I went to a strip club once with my guy friends (I'm female) and my husband didn't mind.
If you trust him, then you are a better woman than most.
Hmm, it's a tough one, judging from my exs, some wouldn't mind and others did mind, was about 50-50. Thinking back on that, the ones that did let me was the ones that trusted me and had less insecurities.
Whatever you wanna do it should be understandable.
Listen even a lap dance is not cheating hell even if the guy cums in his pants there was no genital contact or emotional intamasy it was just like he jacked off it just felt better. And so you don't think I'm some permissive asshole a hand job is cheating even if no other sexual stuff happens.
If you let him he will love it that you give him the freedom to go. Sometimes guys go do stuff just because you say not to and they don't wanna be controlled . So let him go, he'd just go anyway and now you allowed it like a good girl.
I am completly open with my gf we talk about girls and i speak my mind but in the end we still love eachother. Its just a strip club so what all you can do is look no different then looking at porn.
Nope not cool. If he goes you should go too to make sure he doesn't get a lap dance. That's still cheating.