Is it normal to let him treat me like this

You are not a "dog" to be called. One of my friends is going through a similar experience and I told her to stop playing into it and cut ties.

She responded, "But he's so hot..."

Really (-_-)grow some dignity and self respect women! Take charge and throw this loser for a loop.

You can't read his mind, figure him out completely, or know what he is doing when your not around. If your having bad feelings about the relationship, and don't like the way he is treating you then you should do something about it... Let him know about the specific behaviors/actions that he does that bother you/make you insecure... If he doesn't change then it's time to move on. You have to kiss a few frogs before you find a prince. Try dating someone local, someone who lives in your area. The distance in a "long distance relationship" can be bothersome, troublesome, and problematic...

Hang in there, when you find the right one, you will know it and feel it!

Best of luck to you, Sincerely, John C K

yeah. its kinda weird that we allow ourselves treated this way. we're on the same situation right now but what i did is when he calls me and treated me that way again is i shouted at him as in the very " mad way" and after that he didn't do it again. you have to crushed his bones for being like that. this kind of guy is worthless..

Congrats! you are what is known as a booty call. His go to piece when he cant find any closer.

You deserve better, someone that cant stand being away from you (:

This isn't normal at all. If you know you're getting played, run away fast! There's no reason why you needed to be treated the way he's treating you. You deserve so much better. This guy has you as his last call. It's bullshit. Cut all ties.

You need to set your standards higher.

Just talk to him. Communication might help. Maybe he didn't think you guys were serious. You never know until you bring it up. Best of Luck.

I just don't get that why people do like this. Like if you want to stay then stay instead of left you hanging in a relation. Girl, you need to stop being so clingy. Don't message him. leave him alone. If it's possible, ignore him. That'll be like a bucket of clod water for him. That'll make him come to you by himself.

Good Luck! :)

leave him! only put up with those who love you. he doesnt...

Yer its normal for you to let him treat you like that, this is because you want there to be something there even if deep down you know he does not feel the same as you.

Though it may be normal to let it happen, does not however mean toy should be letting it happen. You need to take a stand or walk away from him. He is the kinda guy that gives us a bad name.

he's a douchebag.
I was in the same boat as you. I waited a year for this guy, seeing him for a year. Overall, it sucked. Get out of this shit before it's too late and hurt yourself. I fucked myself up.

You shouldn't be treated that way, but it's your fault because you know you are being played and you allow it!

when will you come to your senses about this guy, hope for you sake it's soon