Is it normal to leave your doors open while you're home?

There was this documentary where an American director went door-to-door just barging into Canadian families' homes to show that Canadians keep their doors unlocked and how apparently stupid that was. Before I saw this, I thought Americans believed Canadians kept their doors unlocked 24/7, even when on vacation. Though, this IS true for many rural families. Canadians are pretty trusting, and with good reason; our crime rate is WAY lower, but, until I saw this documentary, I believed that Americans kept their doors open when they're home and awake, but this documentary seemed to suggest otherwise. This shocked me as much as the Americans were shocked about the Canadians!

Like somebody in the documentary said, it just seems very odd that someone would lock themselves in their own house! This must only be an American thing. For a few decades now, most Canadians have locked up when they leave, but where I live in Canada, it's considered rude to keep your doors locked while you're home. People who do so are considered very shifty and secretive. People assume they must be hiding something or want to be left alone.

In Canada, friends and neighbours often drop by unannounced. Sure, it can be annoying, but it's customary. The custom is to just barge in and scream "hello!" or "good day!" to announce you're arrival. The host then bellows back "come on in!" in a friendly tone. If a relative or friend were to come over to find your door locked with the cars in the driveway, you could expect an annoyed phone call later. Often, people will just walk around the house trying every door before they leave.

Delivery people here will ring the doorbell or knock, but some still come inside to give you your package or talk; often uninvited. I guess this must all seem like crazy talk to an American, especially an urban one. But, to me, having to unlock the door to leave your own house is crazy! I don't personally know or know of anyone who's ever been robbed while they're still at home in broad daylight! (Though I'm certain it has happened.) If you live in the ghetto, you're exempt from my astonishment.

So, do you think America really is more dangerous and people have actual cause to keep their doors locked, even in suburbs and rural areas? Do you think Canadians are absolutely nuts for ever keeping the door open when anybody could just drive up and walk in? Do you think Americans are too untrusting of their fellow man and overly cautious? is it normal to keep your doors open during waking hours while you're home?

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22% Normal
Based on 18 votes (4 yes)
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Comments ( 14 )
  • pixie44

    Because you don't want someone just walking into your house and stealing your shit or eating all your food.
    There was this story of someone in china who would keep his doors unlocked and he found out some homeless lady had been living in his attic for over 4 years. And she waited for him to leave and she would come down and shower and eat and then go back to her "room" how fucking creepy is that?

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    • VirgilManly

      Especially when the landlord specified "No Pets Allowed!".

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    • RoseIsabella

      Creepy enough to make my skin crawl. Seriously, it makes me wanna vomit!

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  • VirgilManly

    I don't care where the fuck I am, I lock the door. I don't want people just walking in.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Me too"

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      • VirgilManly

        Unexpected guests are a personal pet peeve of mine.

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        • RoseIsabella

          Sometimes I taunt them. Mwahahaha!!!

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  • KeepsakeDoll

    They're cultural differences.

    Personally, I think it's better to be safe than sorry.
    Depending on where you grow up, there are reasons for being 'overly cautious.'

    When I lived in Philippines, there was a man who climbed over our locked gate and 'dognapped' a stray we found.

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    • mystery7

      That dog probably became his dinner that night.

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      • KeepsakeDoll

        That was actually his second attempt at dognapping the poor stray.

        I heard the original owners managed to get their dog back.

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  • Dad

    The examples are too extreme.
    Canada has the best health system, the most humanist society and live your life to the fullest policy.

    US is about working, guns and street violence :)

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  • galen

    American here. I had a friend who always used to leave his doors wide open even if he was gone for several hours during the day. He didn't leave his doors open overnight, or in bad weather, or if he was away for a few days. But stop by his house on a sunny day and you'd find the doors wide open, the TVs in his living room and bedroom turned on and blaring away, nobody home, and he might well be out somewhere gone for the afternoon. This was in a fairly good sized town.

    I never understood why he didn't get ripped off.

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  • mystery7

    OP How does that work for keeping criminals and other scum bags out of your house? Is the crime rate so low in Canada that you don't have to worry about that?

    Years ago I used to leave my doors open, but after a few unpleasant experiences (e.g. one day some woman who was a little crazy just walked in and made herself at home on my couch and didn't want to leave) I had to always keep my doors locked.

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    • Koda

      The crime rate is pretty nil where I live in rural/suburban Canada. With all of these blizzards we've been having, our mail boxes are under metres of snow, so the letter carrier is delivering our mail to the door. I'm usually the only one home with my headphones on upstairs, so though I'm assuming he must knock, usually I just find the mail in the foyer downstairs, and footprints leading away. I have to admit it's kind of weird not knowing that someone was in your house, if even for a second, but people are pretty darned honest around here. You can bet that if you lose a wallet or gloves that they'll be returned by somebody, with everything intact. (:

      The only burglary crimes that really happen around here are summer cottages being stripped of copper pipes in the winter when nobody's around for months, and that was like a few years ago. My parents had the locked shed at our summer house broken into, and most people we told were utterly shocked by that, so, like I said, it's really, really rare here... at least in my part of Canada. Luckily, nothing was taken from the shed! I guess they didn't find anything valuable that'd be easy to carry away, and they didn't touch the house itself. There are definitely some old-fashioned values being upheld here. It's sort of backward I guess.

      I'm shocked how low the normality percentage of this post is! I had no idea Americans kept their doors locked while at home during the day. It seems so odd to me...

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