Is it normal to leave her for this?

I have been with this girl for more than 6 months and now she told me that she touched another guys penis before me and they touched each other. I am constantly thinking about this and it eats me out. What do you think?

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  • thegypsysailor

    "Before me" is the point here.
    Your whole life is going to be filled with "before yous". Someone will ALWAYS have been there or done that before you. Get used to it.

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    • mountain-man82

      I agree. Her touching another man before you two got together is no reason to dump her. You'll find that many many women you will encounter will have already touched another man before they were with you, unless youre a freshman in high school. Dont be ao sensitive about that. Now is she touches another man that way while you two are together, then thats a perfectly good reason to dump her.

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  • LaBellesima

    how old are you?

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    • shuggy-chan

      I think the real question is where do you live, to me this sounds more like a cultural thing not an age issue

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  • Negima93

    You sound like a self centered, naive, 13 year old. Like everyone said, most women you get with have probably at least touched another man

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  • Johnnytherat

    lol you said "it eats me out" are you a girl?

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  • Avant-Garde

    Perhaps, you truly aren't ready to have a relationship at this time.

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  • DingDongCabong

    It is normal, but you need to give yourself time to let it go and accept it

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  • polopo

    My girlfriend was (sexual relationship) with 11 boys before me... It eats me daily, but theres something that holds me on of throwing her away

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  • jchan

    I felt the same way with my boyfriend. Before me, there was a really pretty and slim girl he used to get high with and have sex with constantly. This really bothered me. I was worried that he would be comparing us in his mind.. and other jealous feelings came to me. I wanted to break up with him. Not because he had someone before me but because I didn't think I was ready for a relationship because of my negative thinking. But I didn't break up with him and got past my insecurity by not prying into his past and thinking about his past sexual relationship. Anyway.. what I'm saying is that it's normal to feel insecure once in awhile about this kind of stuff. However, if it's taking over your life and thinking then you're not ready. You will only hurt her and get hurt yourself in the end.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    I just can't take this post seriously, so I'll just ramble on about eggs.
    *takes a deep breath, then exhales while taking at a fast pace*
    Eggs are delicious. I like them fried, scrambled, or even slightly burnt. Sometimes I'll crack a raw one in ice cold purple grape juice and drink it. Why? Because it tastes delicious. I'd really like to try an ostrich egg one day, but I heard it's enough yolk to serve like 5 people. Seagull eggs taste pretty good too. I tried them once because I was dared too. Decorating them for Easter is also super fun. So is buying those plastic ones, stuffing them with candy, putting them in a basket, and giving them to my loved ones. A holiday better than Easter is Halloween. I enjoy dressing in crazy costumes and scaring the shit out of people. I heard that if a person mates with a person in a zombie costume they become a real zombie and milk starts coming out of their zits on their skin. I also heard that if a person cuts open a zebra, confetti will come out. I guess I'll never find out because I was banned from Kenya.

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  • OldUserWhoHasReturned

    wow truly shosking

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