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So I had sex with a girl yesterday and it was my first with this girl. Usually I last about 5-10 minutes but yesterday I was an hour i was no where close to getting off. eventually after I was getting bored I just had her finish me with her mouth but even that took forever. I don't know what the heck is wrong with me. It was nice at first but eventually no.
It was quite fast but for some it sounds normal...I normally last for two hours before cumming
It's not normal if it's happening all the time, but it happens to almost everyone at one point.
I'd say it's very normal as I talk to a lot of people about things like this and I also experience this at times. You might have subconscious anxiety about sex. Or maybe you think to much during sex and are to tense about it all. Just know that many men would suck donkey ass to be in your shoes just to last a wee bit longer.
Also, if you masturbate a lot it could desensitize your penis so sex wouldn't feel that good after a while.
Oddly enough, I have the same problem - particularly with "new partners". I'm not sure if it's some sort of performance anxiety, or I just get "too horny" and can't get it all together to reach orgasm.
The sad thing is, most women are perfectly okay with having sex and not always having an orgasm, but regard a man not having an orgasm as a personal failure.