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I am 19 years old and have never had sex. In grade school i was labeled as the weird quiet kid. A few people bullied me and i fell like this label of being a virgin will stay with me the rest of my life. I feel like i will never find a woman that will like me for how i am. In time I excepted i will always be a lonely wired person that will never get laid.
Unless you voluntarily decide to ban sex from your life, I seriously doubt that you will die unlaid.
You'd have to put a lot of effort and energy into working yourself into the right mindset to NEVER get laid in your whole life.
I mean, it would take some SERIOUSLY hard work to degrade yourself so much you absolutely shut down all opportunity for it.
Personally, I'd be lazy and just live my life to the best of my ability, knowing that yeah... it's gonna happen.
It's and attitude like that, that's gonna leave you a virgin for a while. You need to build up self confidence and respect yourself man.
Trust me there's a girl out there for you. You just need to show that your confident in yourself, and don't worry about what people say or have said about you.
Start going out and being social and you'll notice there's girls that are interested in you, no matter how bad you look, as long as your genuine.
Kids bully others because they see a trait that made someone shine. Don't let comments get to you they would only make you feel worse about yourself.
Stand in front of a mirror a few minutes a day, and practice your facial expressions (I'm serious). When you walk, walk with your shoulders held up, and don't be afraid to look around as you walk.
During a setting, laugh to the top of your lungs just once or twice (when you find something funny). Laughing very loud gives an impression that you're confident to people, and in turn will make you more confident.
The only person that is stopping you from confidence is you. People react to your actions, if you give the slightest room for them to play with your emotions, they will take advantage of it. If you give people the impression that you're confident, most of them will not dare to play with your emotions.
Apply it in your daily life...
Good luck mate!
There are times when I think this way. However, think of this. There are 6 billion people in this world, odds are one of them will fall in love with you.
You will lose your virginity when the times right. People from school who bullied you and labeled you things only do so because they themselves are insecure aout the changes that are happening with their own bodies and personaliities, cruel as it is, you were their emotional punching bag, but dont let that hold you back. Remember you are a beautiful amazing person and I bet you have a heart the size of a lion!! Your time will come!!
Did you receive affection and attention from your parents and family..if not you may be experiencing emotional neglect or even abuse..get counseling..talk about your feelings
You are 19 years old and still have plenty of time to become a complete stud. find someone who is interested in you and give it a go.
Everyone can get laid! There are prostitutes, gay men, and tons of women in bars across the country with low self esteem.
high school isn't your life. Figure out who you are and be that person. women love that (girls however enjoy losers and frauds)
Although, fucking is fun, (I wouldn't know) it is good to be a virgin. It used to mean something back then, but now it is an accomplishment I guess. You know whatever, and also I've heard that the first is usually one of the best so find someone you think is amazing, then get someone better, then let that be your first.
My advice is to go pay for it. I was a virgin until I was 22. I was about to go pay for it but I met a girl from work and it went from there.
I highly recommend paying for it though, totally worth it and it gives you a boost of confidence, and you'll get a bit of practice so that when a girl does come along you'll have nothing to worry about
Laughing loudly is just obnoxious. Don't listen to what that crazy girl up there is talking about