Is it normal to keep trying to help her

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listen theres this girl that ive known for 3 years and since ive known her shes suicidal and she hates her self for past issues and she misses her mom R.I.P .and i love this girl to death and i hate seeing her like this it hurts me makes me worry about her im thinking about letting her go but its hard. cuz dont want to hear that shes dead one day cuz it would kill me inside cuz id think i failed her i know shes been thru alot and that i understand why shes depressed i just dont know what to do. any body got any suggestions.

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Based on 40 votes (31 yes)
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  • spacerandy
    13 years ago

    It takes a lot of strength from your behalf to deal with it. If you don't have it in you, you alone know if it's worth the effort. The best thing you can do is let her know she's not alone, and maybe convince her to see someone more skilled, like a psychologyst, maybe even help her pay for it. Like I said, you alone should know if it's worth it.

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  • Vyzr
    13 years ago

    Slap that hoe and tell her something motivational! Like "we have eyes in the front of our head to keep moving forward" or watch the anime gurren lagann with her. Its in english so just watch it online. That helped me lots when i was having problems seeing why i was still living.

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  • Reaper13
    13 years ago

    I know some one like that i told her that shes not alone now shes better but that just might be her

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  • ashelizax
    13 years ago

    you're a wonderful friend for sticking by her side for so long.

    you have to understand that she's had these issues since before you knew her. if you were to "let go", and she followed through, it would not be your fault. feelings of guilt always happen when an untimely death occurs, but know that you gave it your all and loved her enough to try to help her. some people you just can't save.

    on the other hand, if she's been suicidal for that long and hasn't followed through with it, chances are she probably won't. and i think she could be saved through alot of time, patience, love and professional help.

    offer her what you can, but if you feel like giving up, then that's probably the best choice. you know in your heart what the right thing to do is. she is her own destiny.

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  • Adam_6996
    13 years ago

    u can always be there for her but i think u should prepare a nice speach n talk to her..let her know that she can not go on like this forever n dat she should move on

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