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Is it normal for a woman in a relationship to buy a vibrator secretly and not tell her partner? Would she buy it because she's unsatisfied with him in bed? Or is it just that she is too shy to tell him or doesn't want to make him think he's not enough for her?
he'll probably ask where you got it and then ask you to take him there for a few toys...no biggie
Well.. if my chick got a vibrator without telling me i would be really really pissed. But if she did tell me i wouldn't mind at all ;)
My wife has a vibrator and still comes to me for sex so I don't think there is an issue.
Many women can't cum from penetration and need stimulation on their clit to have a really good orgasm. Have her get the vibrator out and make it part of your play with her.
Sometimes guys won't mind, sometimes they will. And you didn't buy it because he's not enough. So don't worry about it.
Def not wierd i have a partner and he satisfies me 100% but i still like doind things alone and no he doesnt no as he will prob think its him so wat he doesnt no wont hurt him :)
i def see how you would think this, BUT, as a guy i know almost every girl has and uses a vibe, it's pretty hot. talk to him about it, maybe bust it out when you two are together. guarantee you'll LOVE it
I think you should celebrate this. You have a woman who enjoys sex! That's soooo great!!!
I'm guesing this is the husband or partner right? Well i wouldnt take it personally, its probaly not that your not satisfying her or anything.
who cares if u masturbate its perfectly natural to do so dont be ashamed ... plus i found that my boyfriend loves sitting beside the bed and watching me masturbate because its like his own personal porno ... who knows your man might like that to ... just dont over think it
Totally normal, she's probably just shy; it doesn't
mean the partner isn't good enough she's probably embarrassed to tell her
partner (I would!).
Perfectly normal. She may be shy, she may be a touch repressed, esp. if she grew up in the sort of household where she was taught that "good girls don't enjoy sex". She may simply have bought it for use when her partner wasn't around and she got an itch ;) and not thought it was important enough to need mentioning. If you really have to know, gently and without rancor, ask "When did you get a vibrator?" She's the only one who knows the whole story.
Why don't you just ask her in a non-assuming way? And do you feel comfortable with this, or not?
You sound like her partner. I think you should respect her privacy, and be yourself in this relationship, & not feel like you have mechanical competition otherwise.
Lol, matches. That's really weird. No offense!
I think it's normal. I'm going to assume this was written by the guy in the relationship, so if I'm wrong, my apologies :)
She was probably afraid to tell you because of the way you seem to be reacting right now. A vibrator and a man are two different things. There's having sex with a man, and then there's having some fun with a vibrator when you're alone (or when you're together, that can be fun too.) Just because she gets to feeling frisky when you're not around doesn't mean she isn't attracted to you or that you don't satisfy her. Let her have her fun!
I think its perfectly normal for either mate to have toy's. Sex with each other is great but some times when you are alone and horny you have to be able to take care of it and vibrators work for women. I like to masturbate with matches and candles so we all ahve our way of masturbation when our partner is not around. Its better than Cheating and relieves the sexual pressure. Some times my wife and I help each other cum doing what we would do when we masturbate. She actually helps me cum a lot striking matches or melting wax on me.
I think you're taking it too personally.
Masturbation is healthy for everyone, even when you're in a relationship.
For a lot of women, it's something that is ultra private. Some women even feel shameful about it.