Is it normal to keep sleeping with someone you don't like...

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So I have this guy friend i'v known for over two years...I never Ever saw myself sleeping with him, I didn't even want to kiss him! But we have been having sex now for like 7 months...but I have No interest in being in a relationship with him..he constantly hints that he likes me and says he only sleeps with ME, and I'm perfect for him & so on.. But I have no interest in him & I even get this weird anxiety attack after I leave his house Every single time we have sex! I NEVER get that weird feeling with anyone els, just him....Wtf is that? He's a good looking guy, funny and basically perfect boyfriend material, but I just feel weird after sleeping with him.. anyone els get a weird sick feeling after sleeping with a certain person?

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  • Grey-Brit
    12 years ago

    Its called guilt!! Stop stringing him along you heartless cow. How can you just use someone like that?

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    Leave him. He clearly thinks that you like him other than just sexually. It is unfair to string him along and let him think that there is a chance that you will be together when you know that you don't want to be with him.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Then why are you sleeping with him?
    He must fuck really good.

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  • ItsJ_ItsJ
    10 years ago

    LOL maybe you think of him as a brother or he just fucks really good idk... what do i know

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  • nowimsureimsane
    12 years ago

    Your just effn around and it makes you sick but you cant stop..ha good ole human nature!wish i were in the bed with someone i didnt love right now..

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  • mumbum
    12 years ago

    I understand what you are saying here... It is simply ambivalence, and the fact that you have even posted the question indicates you are moving towards resolving the uncomfortable ambivalence. Dont feel bad at all, but find another cute guy who doesn't leave you with that feeling afterwards. Ignore all the dicky comments by trolls.. Really, that feeling is your alarm bell to change what is happening. Either fall in love with him (don't recommend this) or slow the sex right Down until you can halt it.

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  • bittersweet21
    12 years ago

    Lol

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  • 41ph4m413
    12 years ago

    haha you wouldn't keep coming back for more if you didn't like it bby ;)

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    How normal is it to keep doing something you don't want to do? not very.

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  • KatieLiz
    12 years ago

    Yeahhh, this doesn't sound healthy for you and it's not nice to lead him on.

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    Break it off. Seriously, you're getting anxiety attacks.

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  • mysisterlovesfranziskavonkarma
    12 years ago

    he he

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