Is it normal to keep sexual fantasies from your boyfriend?
Me and my boyfriend have a great sexual relationship. We've shared what we like and what turns us on. We like to try new things and we're both pretty open minded. But. I feel like I've been overly sexual from a young age and I have some fantasies I don't want to share with my boyfriend. I have fantasize about being raped, abused, forcibly impregnated, being very young with older men...I've had these fatasies for a long time. I've never shared them with anyone. I'm really embarrassed by them and I don't really want to act them out with my boyfriend because I think he'll be really turned off and weirded out. I've only expressed to him that I like sex to be a little rougher sometimes. He's tied me up before and slapped and spanked me. I've said I like him to be more dominant and he's ok with that. He's not an overly dominant person by nature. I guess I just want to know if there are other people that have sexual fantasies they keep from their partners and if it's normal.