Is it normal to keep holding all your desires to the one you love?

i have a girlfriend for 5 years now.we are so much in love with each other and always have this love making desires to each other.but when we're on it,i always stop and kiss her instead.i just love her so much that i don't want her to lose something that can't be back.my body's screaming for it.but my mind and heart keeps reminding me: 'marry her first' ...is this normal?

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Based on 25 votes (18 yes)
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  • Maryy her first? WRONG! If you two love eachother and really admire eachother's company you should do it. Specially if you love her, it'll be a really beautiful experience for both of you. That's how it's actually supposed to be. I think it's so sweet you think this way though, it shows your love for her.

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  • Ldizzy1234

    Thats really cute.

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  • Your heart's in the right place, so just go with the flow. No sex before marriage is an antiquated notion.

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  • NothingxCrazy

    Aw that's cute. If you were my bf I'd appreciate the concern, but at a certain point, you just need to have sex. Let it all out.

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    • TengMarley

      hey..i posted this question over a year and a half ago...that 'certain point' had come already :) we're getting married anytime soon..by the way, we do not prefer the term 'sex'...but 'lovemaking'...it's the same for the rest of the world but not with us ;) thanks!

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      • NothingxCrazy

        Congrats! I'm glad things are working out for you two.

        Random, I remember commenting on this question, it was one of my first!

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  • Treez

    She's waiting for you to man up n stick it in

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