Is it normal to keep dating the same guys?

I'm scared to date new guys because I always think it may be something with one my exes. Or what if I date new guys and theres nothing there

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49% Normal
Based on 41 votes (20 yes)
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Comments ( 6 )
  • NotFloydzie

    Date a new guy and stop being so afraid. Perhaps something new is what you need.

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  • Allistalla

    I have a rule never date the same catch twice .

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  • tellmeimwrong

    Your a walking psychological cliche, you like to reiterate the trauma of being hurt. Now that you know the problem will you be brave enough to change? And free yourself?

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  • jondoerandom

    Go for the new blood, somebody told me once.. "Oh, so you're going out with your ex again? You know there's a good reason she became your ex in the first place". Give it a good thought.

    I don't think people deserve more than 1 chance for a relationship.

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    • davesumba

      exactly, seems to me like there is a reason dating the 'same guys' didn't work out. and when something is consistently not working, it's just common sense to change it and find something that does work.
      and never 'rereturn' to a guy you previously dated, there was obviously problems with the relationship and that sure as heck isn't going to change.

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  • bananaface

    But what if you date a new guy and there's something amazing there? The only way you'll find out is if you take a risk. You may have to date a bunch of terrible guys until you find a one you like. What do you expect to happen if you don't even make an effort?

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