Is it normal to keep a ditance until marrage.

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I have been dating my boyfriend for 1.5 years. He lives 1 hour away from me with his son. I also have a son. I feel the rules are diffrent for the boys so I really dread going there on the weekends. I told my bf that I need to do my own thing with my child and do not want to go up every weekend. When I tell him I only want to hang out when we have somthing planed to do he says. Oh its a money issue I will come to you. This is not the point. We are not married and It is getting so boring sitting aroud while he does stuff around his house. I could be at my house doing things and not sitting around all weekend whe I could be doing things at my home. Also my 6 year old is coping his 9 year old and it drives me crazy. He says he will do anything for me, but I am not sure he understands my son and my needs. It is not my home! I do not want to play weekend wife. Am I wrong?

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Based on 50 votes (26 yes)
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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    How can he know when you do not communicate with him your needs! He may be great, if you make him understand! Good luck with your choices

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  • DontGiveUp
    12 years ago

    You are not wrong... my parents are divorced and every other weekend i see my dad. he lives with his girlfriend (who's really nice... but just a "witch" at times) and her house is a mess (she's not a pig... she was just very depressed) and my dad would just help her clean while my brother, my dads girlfriends daughter, and i just sit on the couch watching tv and getting bored to death... i know how you feel!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    say no come to my house

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