Is it normal to just want someone to like you for you

I seem to be single for like really lobg periods of time and potential partners always say im too friendly or more of a friend than a girlfriend is hat normal

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92% Normal
Based on 75 votes (69 yes)
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  • flutterhigh

    The diagnosis is ugly.

    I'm afraid it's terminal. My condolences.

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  • CDmale4fem

    I would LOVE to have TRUE friends that don't try and take advantage of my kindness. I will help ALMOST ANYONE that needs. I tend to trust more than I should, I'm sure many take my kindness as a weakness. If people can treat others as they want others to treat them then there should be no problems. I don't apologize for anything about who I am, It's just hard to know who I can open up to and they can be ok with a male friend that is a cross dresser. I keep it private at home usually, but a bra or something under my T-shirt now and then when I'm in public.

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  • pantaloonz

    I like girls with hats.

    Ugly cannot be cured with a hat. See post 1.

    -Pantz

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  • stonecutters93

    I've always had the same problem, I've had girls tell me I'm cute but I'm not "relationship" material because I'm too much of a friend or I'm too nice. Every girl I've ever liked has never had the same feelings. I'm starting to lose hope =(

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  • alv1592

    I have the same situation. I always try to look good, but really I want to be liked for me, and not what I look like. But don't worry, you'll find the right one someday. So will I hopefully...

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  • flutterhigh

    Also yes, hats are normal.

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  • blink281

    Sucks

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  • TyLee

    I would also like to add that I envy you because I would love some good guy friends but guys I meet never want to be friends. Aaaah! Guys are soooo frustrating!

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  • TyLee

    Ugh I have a similar problem yet different... Guys love me... Problem is they like me for the outside not the inside. I want a guy who likes me for me. It is hard to find though because guys I meet never want to talk and bond or anything they just want to hookup... It's so annoying!

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  • Pisslan616

    I guess that's what people call the "friend zone".
    I'm sure there are people who will like you for you.

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  • girls are worse though, a guy has to look good and have a good personality to please you and that is very rare

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