Is it normal to just abandoning your friends all of the sudden

I'm shocked that so many other people do this. I thought I was just really abnormal with relationships, because I keep on doing this! I can't help it either and I feel like a really crappy friend.
I just find it so easy to isolate myself even though I know that it'll make me feel like shit.

Woow this app really does this work wonders sometimes. I've gone through what you and others like poisonflower have gone through and thought I was just a young dumb guy acting a fool. But I knew there was something deeper. Thanks for asking this question!!

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Actually what you have is not that different from me. What that is that you have is you just want to be left alone like in a bubble. I get realy irritated at my own life and sometimes wish that I could have a stand still in my own bed and wake up three years later and start fresh.

ya def,used to do n feel the same way,sometimes they r jus too much effort n actually boring the shit outta u, but it`s like u having fun urself at first instance,in the end u know urself tho u having more fun jus being alone n chilling,even tho most of the ppl r jus getting pissed at that,
another thing could be its jus ur personality that u cant rly trust em,like fear of rejection so called n u cant be urself when ur with em
took me some time to figure that out haha

thnx u guys for ur comments, very much appreciated :)

i've done this soooo many times! i'm prbly a lot older than you, and my REAL FRIENDS understand. i've blown people off for like, two years at a time. then, when i'm ready and i need them, i find the few that are still there for me. and they'll tell you (constantly!)what it was like for them to worry and wonder about you. i think you're alright

AHHH this is exactly what I do! I thought I was the only one.. Sometimes I just cut off connection with my friends, don't want to talk to them or hang out with them. I just want to be by myself. Then I will go back to hanging out with them.. then the cycle happens again! I don't know why.. its just like I want to be by myself. And often I find my friends disappoint me.. I don't really know how to explain it. It just make me feel like a really bad friend. Right now i'm kind of avoiding everyone actually, I know it's not fair to them, but I cant help it.

bro you have no idea how normal that is well unless you dont have a artistic bone in your body but i have a very imaginative spirit and i use it as an outburst for my drawings or anything playing guitar as long as you have that imaginative spirit you'll keep the fountain of youth

i have some friends dat have felt the same way but we go out and party and they all of a sudden turn into dis other out goin person you should try it some time
good luck

nope, not really normal. Its one thing to like peace and quite...or even taking a vacation by yourself, but you'll get bored.