Is it normal to insult someone who accidentally stops up a toilet?
Ever since I was young, I have had a history of clogging up the toilet at our home and once, even at one of my aunt's houses. It has always been accidental when it has happened. It's always been difficult for me to gauge how much paper is too much. There's also been the issue of my unpredictable bowels when this has happened. Anyway, in recent years, this has become a pretty infrequent and rare occurrence. Despite this, my mother has taken to insulting me when it does happen. She tells me that I am acting like a three year old simply because I accidentally clog the toilet. I don't understand the logic behind this. It throughly hurts my feelings when she says these things. I think that it could even be considered a form of emotional and verbal abuse. Whenever, I try to get her to see the error of her words, she refuses to listen to reason and repeatedly tries to shut me down. Is this normal?