Is it normal to initiate sex with my bf while were both sleeping?

Sometimes I wake up to myself "playing" with my boyfriend while he's sleeping and don't remember starting it. I'm not having any sexy dreams. I've slept next to other people before and this has never happened. Sometimes he does it too. Neither of us knows why, it just happens sometimes. Is this normal?

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Based on 275 votes (180 yes)
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Comments ( 26 )
  • Faceless

    Try initiating sleep while your BOTH having sex.

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    • ApatheticRoy

      *you're

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      • Faceless

        Thank you so much for correcting my grammar on a comment I made 5 FUCKING YEARS AGO. FOR 5 WHOLE FUCKING YEARS IVE BEEN STUPIDLY USING "YOUR" INSTEAD OF "YOU'RE" BUT NOW I NO LONGER WILL THANKS TO YOU. YOU CUNT!

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      • deepdankstickygoo

        Douche.

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  • dappled

    I read about an old married couple who often woke up having sex even though neither of them remember initiating it. They put it down to the fact they'd been together so long and were so comfortable in each other's company. When you look at it like that, it's kind of sweet.

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  • jamesmitchell29486

    i hope either you're on the pill or are trying to concieve otherwise you could end up a mommy and not remember the fun part.

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  • lovesexandturtles

    I don't see why it wouldn't be normal. What's wrong with wanting to have sex with your boyfriend all hours of the day and night? What a lucky guy.

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  • theAnomilyGuy

    One night me and my wife took a bunch of ambien before bed (a strong sleeping pill). The next morning we told ourselves we had the exact same dream about having sex out back in the shed. When we looked the shed doors were wide open and her bra was on the floor inside next to some bloody tissue. I looked at my wiener and there was blood on it aswell. She was on her period and apperently we sleepwalked out to the shed and fucked. We must of known somehow that people inside the house would've heard. Oh and the combo lock on the shed was undone! I shit you not. Apperently a lot of weird things have been known to happen on this drug while people are asleep according to wikipedia. Your subconscious has posession of the ball when your asleep and seeks to fill out primal desires.

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    • Scarecr0w

      that is the funniest thing i have ever heard. we should give ambien to scientists and see if they cure cancer in their sleep.

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    • elderdragon7

      That's awesome, but weird.

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  • odd777

    You guys must be very comfortable with each other. At night my ex boyfriend would wake me up initiating sex. He was barely more asleep than awake. If I responded we both end up awake quite quickly, but if I was too half asleep to respond he'd be asleep in seconds. I did the same thing to him. We were both on the same page with our "drives" and completely relaxed with each other. On the other hand I'd spend nites in my guy friend's bed (eventually boyfriend) and he'd try to initiate sex when he was literally asleep; it woke me up & it was like dealing with & sometimes talking with an alter ego. I really didn't like it.

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  • css

    I have had dreams having sex with my partner sleeping beside me. But after a while it wakes me and him up. My reason is I don't get enough sex!

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  • dreamcatcher1987

    This used to happen to me and my ex all the time.But I was always the one who iniated it while sleeping.One time I woke up and I was on top of him and he was equally aroused but dead asleep.I ended up finishing cuz why not and he didnt wake up til the very end, but he wasnt mad.But I would always find myself waking up and like humping his leg or something.Its never happened next to anyone else. But when im alone i wake up trying to hump the bed lol.its kinda weird but i dont do it on purpose!

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  • andrelo_06

    First, you need to get married . Second , IDK

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    • Lightsoff

      Bein married doesnt mean shit.. Bein married means if u guys break up she gets to take every thing u have.. What a dumb reply. Go back to children section and help sombody find a book to read.

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  • the_nick30

    Man Up.

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  • IMissMary

    I was in a relationship once where we used to do that same thing. Except we would end up having full blown sex 1-2 times a night, every single night we slept together. We would usually have sex before we went to sleep say around 9 then watch some TV etc before drifting off to sleep. Then at around 1 or 2am we'd be at it again for maybe 20min then go back to sleep, then again at about 4 or 5am. So we would pretty much have sex about 3-4 times a day.

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  • carley52

    it is normal to me! on multiple occasions my girlfriend (I'm lesbian) has woke me up saying I was playing with her in my sleep and trying to get her to play with me! I have no recollection of it but I do wake up very wet and horny!

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  • GothBabe

    This happens to me and my guy all the time. Usually one of us wakes up and then will wake the other for some 2am fun!

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  • theAnomilyGuy

    Sleepfucking... I love it :)

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  • normalornotqazqaz

    sleepfucking

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  • brassanubis

    There is a medical condition that causes this, not sure what it is though?

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  • bleach_baby

    Its called sexomnia, google it.

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  • rocket

    Yes

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  • kankersukkel49

    are u on drugs woman?

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  • Flirty108

    I don't know but your story is funny? I don't really know much bout sex!!!

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