Is it normal to initiate a hookup as a girl or ask a guy if he is dtf?

Is it weird to flat out ask a guy if he wants to have sex? I guess my question is how do I initiate a hookup with a guy? I'm shy and not the most experienced.

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  • derpyderp

    Don't know if it's normal but it's not a bad thing unless you're saying it frequently to a lot of different guys.
    I'm assuming this is aimed at a particular guy?
    Also seems weird that you say your shy but are happy to come right out & ask this guy...

    I remember years ago a good looking girl moved in next to me & always seemed to come out front to check letterbox or whatever while I was outside.

    I didn't think much of it, then one day she asks me inside & gives me a tour of the house. We get to her room, both end up sitting on her bed & all of a sudden she just says "so, do you want a blowjob?"

    This girl certainly wasn't shy & we ended up together for a while & have actually been on & of for years now...

    Anyway, the point is, if this is a special guy & you're not just being slutty, then go for it. Sometimes guys don't get your hints & might not make the first move. Just be ready for rejecting just in case but I doubt that will be a problem

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  • dom180

    If you do it in the right environment, with someone you know and trust and is single and doesn't have anything urgent to do, sure.

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  • Depends. If you asked guys randomly you'd most likely find one that accepts.

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  • handsignals

    Get him alone start kissing him and rubbing his dick, it's pretty simple.

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  • Crusades

    Are you hot?

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    • Lala912

      In the least possible stuck up way since you asked, I've had many guys say I'm attractive or hear from friends but no one makes a move and I would definitely be dtf if they did..

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  • YoungerSis

    Experience is the best teacher.

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