Is it normal to imagine sexual fantasies about your close friends?

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as an out gay man, i regularly imagine sexual fantasies about my straight male circle of friends when i want to masturbate. we’re all around 23 years old. we’ve been friends since high school. it doesn’t affect my relationships with them too much besides the occasions where they change in front of me and i worry that i’ll make them uncomfortable if my eyes linger. i’m not very sexually active because i, for some reason, find myself unattracted to more outwardly gay men. actually i tend to get very nervous and uncomfortable around other gay men. should i see a sex therapist or something?

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    I don't have sexual fantasies about any of my friends, because I don't want to feel weird around them.

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  • Mammal-lover
    3 years ago

    That's weird. I'd just blow it off but I'm pretty chill when it comes to sexuality. As long you didnt try something it would be whatever. A coworker tried something once and it was just weird. I saw him going in for a kiss and it was like slow motion. Such a hard nope. I litterky said nope as I backed away. So do your friends a favor and dont try anything. Keep that shit to yo self

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  • KholatKhult
    3 years ago

    Ehhhhh kinda creepy and disrespectful to use your friends like that. I’d be angry.

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    • LloydAsher
      3 years ago

      Every single straight male has thoughts about their female friends.

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      • einexile
        3 years ago

        Meanwhile the female friends are all thinking about each other.

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      • Clunk42
        3 years ago

        What female friends?

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      • KholatKhult
        3 years ago

        Speak for yourself

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  • litelander8
    3 years ago

    You’re fine.

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