Is it normal to imagine being the man during sex/fantasies?
I don't know, but in the last few years I've realized that I am extremely curious about what it would feel like to be a man, but only during sex, and that I kind of wish I could have that role instead. Maybe it has to do with the fact that I was raped three years back and maybe that triggered the fascination, but I'm really too embarrassed to ask anyone this out-loud.