Is it normal to ignore him

its one thing to want to be with your partner and its another to threaten to commit suicide if you want to have a night to yourself.

no one likes clingy because its very creepy and stalkish. if you are right for each other then you would understand that your partner would still want to see their friends, family or want time on their own. clingy people do not understand this. they freak out and think that you are going to break up with them if you forget to call or if you are 10 minutes late to a date and they are extremely jealous.

for example, you had a long day at work, you are tired and hungry and have a headache and just want to chill out. your stalker / clingy partner calls and want to meet but you just dont have the energy to get off the couch. they start getting all upitty because they think you are cheating on them or want to break up. they start crying and say that they are going to kill themselves because you dont love them anymore (even though its your first date).

so because you dont want them to blame you for their death, you have a shower, get dressed and pick them up.

you sit there at dinner quiet because you are tired and sore and the psycho next to you thinks you hate them and wants to break up. they start crying again and make a massive scene in the restaurant. they yell out that you are the love of their life and dont ever ever ever want to break up (again its your first date). you end up just walking out of the restaurant and drive home and go straight to bed to sleep it off.

the next day you wake up to 120 missed calls and 50 text messages from your creepy date freaking out because you left. you call them and tell them you dont want to see them again but they dont understand. they start stalking you, sitting outside your house, your work, your families house... watching...

you end up having to get a restraining order because they just wont leave you alone.

now, would you find that sort of thing attractive in a potential partner?