Is it normal to i don't want it to be too serious?

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Is it notmal that i really need affection, and some kinda relationship involving everything a couple would have, but that i'm scared it will become too serious.. Like family events and being TOO MUCH together all the time... I'm also scared in some kinda way that he wont accept me entirely and will try to change me or wish i would change..

I was in love before with my ex of 4 years and it ended badly.. We were always together and i liked it that way, i wanted it that way...
But now i dont want the same thing i had with him. I mean, i dont think i'm scared to be hurt or something (emotionaly) cause i would not let myself get too attached... But there is so much more than that...

I dont understand.. Is it normal i feel this way?

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Based on 20 votes (17 yes)
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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    Notmal

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  • Eternal_Wisdom
    11 years ago

    don't let a bad past experience spoil future good ones.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    At some point you will feel ready again. Being scared to get hurt again is something that every single one of us had been through. Stay strong!

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  • Marisol
    11 years ago

    I feel exactly like you feel. I hate feeling this way :(

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Why so serious?

    Nostril

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    Sounds normal enough, but I think it would be better if you can find someone who accepts EVERYTHING about you and WANTS to be with you all the time.

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