Is it normal to hurt your girlfriend during sex from penis size?

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My girlfriend really likes to moderate how often we have sex. If we have sex Friday night, I'll be lucky to have sex again until Sunday because she will complain that I'm "big" and make her sore. Never had this problem before, but she's also only 5'2" and I am definitely above average in size based on anything I've ever heard. Is it normal to hurt a girls vagina? I admit I'm also very rough and go all the way in, and often she will beg for me to be more gentle, but she still claims it's an amazing sex life. But if it was, why can't we have sex more than once a night and more than every couple days? She's 19 and I'm 20. Is this normal?

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  • barstool
    6 years ago

    Don't be so rough and insist on sticking it all the way in if you know it's going to hurt her and then maybe she'll want to have sex more often.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Have her fuck a few other guys and then have her compare them to you.

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  • paramore93
    6 years ago

    Normal, just the thought of pain can put some people off even if she says it's good you're still hurting her ..
    You don't need sex every night anyway, makes it better if you wait a couple of days inbetween ..

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  • Tweeker70
    5 years ago

    I have the same problem you have to he easy with her Monty go so deep and hard give her just enough to fill her completely trust me she will love it.

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  • EnglishLad
    6 years ago

    In my experience, there are some girls who don't mind rough sex, but don't do it for long periods.

    When you're fucking her rough, make it 20 second bursts or something short like that, and don't go all the way in. Then slow right down but go balls deep.

    Continue like this and she may even squirt if she doesn't get up to go to the bathroom to pee.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    You say you're rough, that she begs you to be more gentle (which you apparently ignore), and that she says sex with you leaves her sore.

    And you have to ask why your girlfriend doesn't want sex more often?

    Duh...

    It's possible that it's not so much to do with your size per se, but more about friction and your technique. Vigorous, under-lubricated sex can cause vaginal microabrasions.

    Would you want to have sex if you had friction burns on your dick and touching it hurt?

    Consider lube and try to cool your jets.

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  • e51pegasi
    6 years ago

    Only if you are hung like a donkey.

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  • MR.mr
    6 years ago

    Your size has nothing to do with it.
    Unless you a breaking records your dick can't possibly be big enough to seriously hurt her.

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