Is it normal to hope to be with some one who's no longer in your life?

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I'm eighteen. There's this guy I used to sit next to in 2/7 of my classes last year. I liked him more than I've ever liked anyone. We talked a fair amount in school and nothing more than that, though.

This summer I got my GED, dropping out of high school. This guy, also eighteen, is still in high school. He's bright, really bright... brilliant. I don't know what he's planning to do next year, though he's most definitely attending college.

I haven't talked to him since May and yet I think about him all the time. I constantly fantasize about bumping into him, becoming really good friends, then becoming more than friends.

Is this creepily obsessive?

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  • puppyface
    13 years ago

    Its normal, I was obsessed about my ex years after we broke up. The best way to get over your obsession is getting to know a person better, you relize that they aren't the person you WANTED them to be.

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  • scotty4444
    13 years ago

    perfectly normal, and the longer you hang onto it, the more you will think about him. Try to take this away from the experience: The next time you meet someone like this guy, dont let the opportunity pass you! You will have many chances in life, especially after you leave school and enter the real world where people stop taking the opportunity a place like high school presents for granted because they are no longer so worried about what everyone else will think.

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