Is it normal to hook up with an ex?

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So a few months ago i asked a question about catching feelings for a girl (now being my first lesbian relationship & ex-girlfriend) We broke up way back in April, but ever since we still act like were in a relationship. Examples: She shows up at the same party I'm at...she'll take me home and as im getting out the car, she'll ask "you're not gonna kiss me?" and then ends up being a tongue down the throat make out. We still talk till this day, flirting and all. I've told her I still and will always have feelings for her (could this be why she thinks its okay to mess around with me still?) We can hang out during the day as just friends, and then at the end of the day it's a lovefest.

Ugh let me get the point across. She doesnt want a relationship, but we both have feelings for each other.Its been three months we havent been in a relationship, yet every other week or so we're in each others bed. I wouldnt say this is a friends with benefits type of thing, because we both get jealous after mentioning talking to other people.

Heeeeeeelp, I just don't know what to do.

(& if it matters, &/or changes the situation, she's 17 and I'm 18)

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  • LOUi_CUDi
    10 years ago

    So it looks like you are more of a booty call. Just try to move on and tell her to stop playing games with you, you are a young adult not child

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    "So a few months ago i asked a question about catching feelings for a girl"

    I stopped there. But I assume it was another attention seeking post made by a straight girl.

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  • LOUi_CUDi
    10 years ago

    Stop messing around with her because she is just playing games with you. My advice is don't mess around with an ex until you stop have feelings for the ex. You said that you guys hook up only every now and then.

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    • Homewreckker
      10 years ago

      That's what i started to think, about her playing games. She has a problem when i talk to other people (somewhat doesnt trust me around guys nor girls) but then shes doing the same with her ex boyfriend (that she went out with for 2 years) & many others who say that like her. I would cut off my feelings but when i do and she notices shes back at it with saying "i love you, dont ever leave me.." etc. I wont even get started on what happens when she's drunk....

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      • LOUi_CUDi
        10 years ago

        Lol...Walk way if want to be worry free. Plenty of fish out in the sea. I know it hard because of the feelings and history but you can do it.

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        • Homewreckker
          10 years ago

          So true. We talk damn near everyday, but we havent since tuesday. I feel so bad for not talking to her because she'll take it out on me if i were to right now. "eff you, you dont care, how can you love me and not hmu over more than 2 days?!" Being a female, i'd thought it be easier to get all the perks of being in a relationship with a girl...wrong. Dueces my "hook up buddy" -_-

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