Is it normal to hook up than feel bad about it ?

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I have realized I hooked up with every single friend I have had for the most part . I do not know they have all hooked up with me or each other too and nothing ever works out .Sometimes I get dreams after this about that person and I just start to think what the hell am I doing anymore its always the same thing and it is useless. Ill never find anyone just the same continues motions .

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  • flutterhigh
    11 years ago

    Allistalla, you are way too young to be doing this.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      You know how i figured out it was her?

      The fullstops are a space away from the words, only she does that. My attention to detail is staggering you see.

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      • flutterhigh
        11 years ago

        I noticed that too. Now I feel bad because she obviously put an incredible amount of effort into spelling almost everything correctly to disguise her identity, but we still figured it out. It's like a kid playing hide and seek by jumping under the covers and giggling, thinking no one can see him.

        But if this unknown "anonymous" original poster wants a serious answer: yes, it is normal. Friend groups of different genders and sexualities tend to intermingle and develop a lot of different romantic and sexual links. It seems as though you are yearning for something more substantial than a casual sexu-- aw, what the fuck am I even trying for. She's going to respond with "ya i konw but sometmeis I likke to tinhk abnout vampores sereusly ."

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        • [Old Memory]
          11 years ago

          "I noticed that too. Now I feel bad because she obviously put an incredible amount of effort into spelling almost everything correctly to disguise her identity, but we still figured it out."

          You posted her identity before i pointed it out so you can't be lying....i didn't think anyone on here was that sharp. I stand corrected.

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        • Allistalla
          11 years ago

          I do not care who knows these are mine . I auctully prefere when you figure it out so much easier explaining things that way . yes I know there is patterns that are dead give aways I do not care you know it is me and the only reason I been trying to improve my grammar is becuase you are all so bothered . Yes I listen sometimes I know my spelling is complete krap I have been trying to fix the mistakes . so if the spelling and issues are less noticible is becuase I am trying to make an honest effort to better myself dear .

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      • iEatZombies_
        11 years ago

        Shh! She'll stop doing it!

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      Oh you figured out my age did you ?This auctully started 5 years ago and has continued ever since also no I do not mean I slept with them I just dated all of them .

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    That's cool. When are you going to actually post something that is abnormal, different or special, Allistalla?

    You implied that "every thought you have" you make a post about...Just goes to show how dull you are, and coming from me, that must be pretty bad.

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  • zackattack
    11 years ago

    Sounds to me your making the same mistake so many girls make. I'm guessing a lot of your friends are the good looking popular guys, who hook up,but think you're not good enough for a relationship. You gotta get beyond what's cool, and go for the guy who will truly treat you like a princess. Try a guy who may not seem cool, but is a genuine nice guy.

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  • blaster
    11 years ago

    I can understand it , even as a guy I've felt like that and gave up one nighters. Might sound like bs but I realized I just need it to at least feel like it's right even if it doesn't end up working out.

    But I have noticed a pattern with girls that are too easy about this stuff to, they rarely seem to end up in anything serious or it often not for long anyway.I reckon a girl really needs to look after herself in that way or it starts to show and looks a bit off.

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  • ForMyPeaceOfMind
    11 years ago

    In the world we live in, it's normal to hook-up! However, whether to feel bad about it or not is up to the person. If you're feeling that bad after every single hook-up, then maybe you should really evaluate your life and situation; and seriously make some changes in the way you express your feelings for friends. Besides that, if they are friends...why would you want to hook-up with them? That's the fastest way to losing them as friends!

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  • Fadina
    11 years ago

    Yeaah having that feeling right now too

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    Maybe date guys outside your friendship circle. It sounds a bit incestuous (not literally - figuratively).

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    This reminds me of when I was supposed to go to my 10th grade homecoming with a foreign exchange French student. I always felt really bad because i stood him up due to emotional issues and having a crush on someone else at the time *rolls eyes*. It still bothers me to this day.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    WTF, Allistallia (did I spell that right?)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Alli-Stalla.

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      • Avant-Garde
        11 years ago

        Thanks.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          You are welcome dear.

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    • Who_Fan4Life
      11 years ago

      Allistallia, lmao!

      It's Allistalla.

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      • Justsomejerk
        11 years ago

        Oh the irony.

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      sweety its Alli-stalla. Why is everyone miss spelling my name I spelled it like that so I would not forget how to spell it and I was hoping it would be easy to remember .

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      • Avant-Garde
        11 years ago

        I don't know why, but every time I see your username I want to call you "australia".

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        • Allistalla
          11 years ago

          LOL I guess my name is close.

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