Is it normal to hire an escort to talk and cuddle?

Find a girl who is like yourself.

Escorts are humans too. I think people look down on them too much like they're scum. They're just trying to pay the bills and arent hurting anyone. I dont think its a big deal man but you will find a good girl one day. You just need some coaching.

Everybody is ugly to somebody. I know it's very cliche but confidence and self respect are very attractive qualities. People who are worth your time look beyond superficial qualities.

My husband is fat. Society tells us that women aren't attracted to fat men, but I am very attracted to him, and always have been since the day I met him. He has gorgeous eyes and a fantastic personality, and is very intelligent and kind hearted.

Just giving my own experience as an example. I hope you find a way to learn to love yourself.

Man, you have awful self esteem. Like, I know I'm ugly, but I don't think the way you do. You're not "too hideous"; there's a person for almost everyone and not even trying greatly reduces your chance of meeting said person.

More often than not this is what prostitution is about. It's perfectly normal but it is a waste of money. as Ellena has suggested there are better ways to improve your life lot in life.

You're not a weirdo and you're certainly not a bad person, going only on your post of course.

I find your low view of yourself quite sad and I'm sure unjustified: even if you are as ugly as you believe yourself to be, plenty of people who aren't conventionally attractive or who are downright ugly are in relationships and marriages - just look around & you'll see plenty.

Maybe you could spend some of that money on some therapy to improve your self esteem?

All that aside, lots of sex workers (myself included on adult phone lines) find that there are lots of lonely men out there who just want to talk and are prepared to pay for it.

it is normal.

Unfortunately this is normal. Get your life together bud. Stop being such a doomer and work to better yourself. I guarantee you'll get a gf even if she's just as ugly as you that's better than nothing.

There are guys that are just not attractive enough for any woman. I know this because I am one of them. Since you are paying this escort, you should be working toward having her teach you more about sex. If she doesn't want to, have her suggest one of her friends that could help you for a reasonable price.

Donald Trump has a wife. Let that sink in.

its normal.

Well the escort is getting off well on her end of the deal but man you have self esteem issues that need fixing.

It's not common for sex workers to encounter this but it does happen. Sometimes guys just want someone they can go out to dinner with or whatever. It's not always about sex. It's so common actually that theres company's who's escorts are strictly dates. No sex is involved and is highly discouraged. The girls are there to be a date or provide company. Sometimes a man will bring the same girl to parties or whatever. Maybe hes gay or just wants company without drama. Whatever the persons reasons there are services that cater to this. Really ots a beautiful thing. Once I start working if I get regulars who are like that I'll for sure give them a discount simply cause well it warms my heart

A lot of strippers and prostitutes do this often.

You should shag her if you're paying. The girlfriend experience is a common purchase for prostitutes, but you normally also shag them when you're paying for the convo too.

It'll boost your confidence if you do, dude, and then you might be able to get a girl you don't have to pay for if you've got more confidence.