Is it normal to hide your good looks

my friends and family think am weird now. I hate attention, i have long thick blond hair i tie it up and i always wear a hat, i have large blue/green eyes i always wear dark shades, i have a slim,athletic yet curvy body and i wear my brothers oversize jeans large t shirts and jackets, i have a beautiful smile but i wear deep matte brown lipsticks and never smile. my parent say am going through a tom boy stage but the truth is i was molested by a gang of boys at my school when i wore short skirts and now i just want to be invisible. what should i do is this normal

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Based on 96 votes (59 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • coolcat88

    send those fuckers to jail!!!!! fuck that if your beatiful you must show it to the world! and remind those perves of something they cant have. lol tell me their names and address i personally beat those cowards asses!!!!!!!! no joke

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  • Talk. To your mom. To your Prinicipal if you can (who else have these out-of-control thugs molested, or will again? School is supposed to be a safe place). To a distress centre counsellor, clergy, etc. whoever you can trust.

    You need some support and blaming yourself by covering up to be invisible is not an answer. You've done nothing wrong. The assault has, however, affected you and must have been an awful experience. I think you should reach out to people who love you and who respect you.

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  • BOYracer88

    oh sorry to hear that, thats realy uncool, i agree withthe other 2, talk to someone. you obviously do this as a defence and it perfectly understandable but you are clearly deeply affected by what happened

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  • OgreMatt

    Bullshit story, if you actually had no self worth like you claim, you wouldn't have said all that nice stuff about yurself. BULLSHIT

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  • karma_is_bs

    you HAVE to report these assholes so they won't do it agian!!!!i'm sure you're beautiful and NOBODY deserves to be treated like you were...don't let them make you feel awkward about what happened!!THEY should be the ones that feel bad about doing what they did to you.you were the victim..PLEASE report them!!!

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  • MooseEyes

    OMG...I am so sorry that happened to you at school.
    School should be a safe place.
    Have you contacted the school administration yet about this?
    I know it may be hard to think about this now, but are you safe? If you don't feel safe, please let someone know right away!
    As to your feeling like you want to be invisible....You have been molested, you most certainly feel victimized.
    I can understand that you would not want anyone to see you after that happening.
    It may take awhile before you are feeling better again after this.
    Make sure that you have someone that you can talk to about this, ok?
    You need to be able to talk to someone you trust, please don't put this off..kk?
    I would like to know how you are doing with this, would you msg me and let me know, please?
    I do care about you, as a person, and I want the very best for you in that regard.
    If you ever need to talk, you can msg me also.
    Hope you feel better soon....:]

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  • RachelFace

    First of all, you should tell someone what happened. Those boys need to be punished.

    Second of all, never let someone change who you are. You shouldn't have to hide your beauty because of them. I say go to school the next day and be beautiful. :]

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  • Celeste

    I don't know if you're really just an attention-seeking man on the other side of the screen....but if you are who you claim to be, then follow these people's helpful advice and shed the costume-don't let trash from the past control who you are in the present.As for the rape, if you can identify their faces[proof is another issue] then court can help throw their sorry asses in jail. Telling your parents might make you feel ashamed, but surely they can help you-they must be worrying about you constantly, so do the right thing and tell them.The same thing almost happened to me[my mom's boyfriend] when i was 11.Never told anyone except my best friend; we were alone and he kept touching me down there, but i ran away.This makes me uneasy to talk about[i wasn't even raped] so it must be beyond difficult for you as well.

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  • tell someone. you need to find comfort in your friends and family. Its alright to feel selfconscious. I hope it works out well for you

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  • mtnw

    i agree with ollieo. talk to someone and get some help. you suggest that your parents don't know what happened, but you should not feel ashamed and carry this weight all by yourself. you are ok playing down your looks for now, because it makes you feel safer.

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  • Mersaphe

    If you hide your good looks, people will judge you less on your appearance and more on your character. It's the only way to tell if your friends like you for your looks or your personality.

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  • Ramo50

    It is completely normal, in Islam women cover themselves to be modest. It also has many benefits, they are better protected from such incidences like u spoke of sorry that happened to you.

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  • Mooseyes feels for u
    I agree with Ollieo

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  • jess22

    I'm so sorry, you should tell your patents. That's soo normal. You've had a traumatic experience with men and you're trying to protect yourself by putting up barriers. Remember that most men have good intentions. You should talk about this to a counsoler and parents. Never be ashamed of yourself. I suggest taking a self defense class or something to feel empowered and safe. Good luck.

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  • timebobbu

    thats hot

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  • hotchickie81

    I used to be like that, but I now enjoy showing off my good looks, while I still can!

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