Is it normal to have zero sex drive when in love?

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So I'm a pretty normal guy. I've been in a few relationships and have always had a pretty normal sex drive. However, recently I met this girl who I seriously am just so incredibly happy to be with. We've been on a few dates but we talk all the time and it's so different from my past relationships. However, I've noticed that since i've been with her i have zero sex drive (which isn't a huge problem because she is pretty religious and premarital sex won't happen). I don't mind not having sex with her because I just am so content with simply being around her. But I find it weird that I don't even feel like masturbating ever anymore. Is this normal?

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Based on 55 votes (44 yes)
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  • hokisgurl
    12 years ago

    Aww thats cute i would like a guy like that your a rare breed im religious too and refrain from premarital sex but im not a v-jay tho Some might say this is not normal but i think its love and respect u have for her and her spiritual Outlook on life has rubbed off on u Maybe u should look into her religion

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  • drugsrbadmkay
    11 years ago

    Yes it is normal it is because when you are in love you have higher levels of the neurotransmitter oxytocin (not to be confused with Oxycontin lol) which suppresses your sex drive.

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  • KiryuuLain
    11 years ago

    Normal too.I'm an atheist but my bf and I also have zero sex drive.It's because you might actually love her...Sub-consious factors.Read a book relative to it.Though it stills being pretty normal.

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  • xoblondiexo
    12 years ago

    Normal. This guy I was in love with.. I wouldn't wanna have sex with him just because I cared about him so much, almost like he was my own kid.. Not to sound creepy lmao. A lot of people don't understand what it's like to really be in love.

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  • Dazzie
    12 years ago

    Good thing you got going on there. Be grateful it's that way rather than you being uncomfortable for her religious beliefs.

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