Is it normal to have your first crush at the age of 9

my daughter currently has a crush on a boy and is 9 years old, is that normal, when was your first crush(please answer in comments!)

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Based on 305 votes (280 yes)
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Comments ( 34 )
  • xoxo29

    So normal. I had my first crush in kindergarden!!!! LOL!!!!

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  • Dude I'm a girl and mine was in like preschool. It's totally normal 4 people to b attracked to others at young ages

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    • Devilsummoner

      mind your English please. Duh

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      • BlueLipstick25

        why u tellin her to mind her english...she was understandable..duh!!

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  • alv1592

    I didn't notice boys much until I was in 7th grade, that was the first time I had a serious crush. But it's normal at a young age. It's just an innocent crush.

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  • 123pie123

    I had a crush when I was 9 so I think it's ok. ive still got the same crush

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  • watashikara

    IN first grade I had a crush and knew that sex was something you do with girls you like alot. But I am pretty messed up today so Im not sure If it is normal.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Normal. I already fantasised about sex too.

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  • funnymoments

    it's so normal i had a crush when i was 5 lol !!!!!

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  • Swaggie1207

    I had my first bf in like 1st grade so yeah is totally normal

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  • Jiovanie

    Well my first kiddy crush was in fourth grade on another boy named Micheal because he was just cool, like the bada** of the class, I guess a precursor to my being a homosexual. However my very first heartfelt crush that did make me experience a ton of emotion was in 10th on a guy who I had become good friends with, which evolved from a weird admiration.

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  • darkangels

    WTF YEA MINE WAS WHEN I WAS 5!!!!beat that :D j/k

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  • BloodyMuffin

    I had my first crush when i was 11 or 12. But all the girls around me had crushes at like 6. Its normal.

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  • jrphotographer

    1st grade

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  • Mine wuz5

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  • brkb

    Extremely normal.

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  • MissyP

    My first crush was in grade one. Yes, I was like.. six.

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  • patrickbatemenlover

    I didn't start getting crushes until about the age of 11... but many of my friends at the time already fancied guys and some had there first kiss when they were 9. Not sure how I would feel about that if I was a parent! Looking back now 9 is just so young... and it seems "to young" but thats what some 9 year olds go through and nothing can stop it. Everyone is unique.

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  • strawberrybanana

    i was in first grade lol. i think its more normal for girls than boys but im not sure since im a girl lol

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  • Christoph

    because of the media, and other things in childrens lives that they are exposed to, they think its 'cool' to have a crush on someone . and it will make them 'normal'. they are not really experiencing love. just kids trying to act older.

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    • deepthought33

      When I had my first crush at the age of like 4 I wasn't exposed to the media. My parents couldn't afford a tv and I was homeschooled. I LOVED boys lol.

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  • jhonen32629

    It's VERY normal for your nine year old daughter to have a crush on a boy. It will most likely be the first of many crushes.

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  • zygoteXY

    i was in second grade, and it was another boy like me, and i'm not even gay.
    Psychologists say that same sex crushes are normal when you are real little.
    9 is puberty so u r good.

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  • sammif

    yuppers... its all good as long as he is like 9 haha

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  • i had mine at about 4 or 5 :)

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  • starkmanfan28

    Don't worry abbout it I had my first crush at like 5 or 4

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  • kellstar

    I had my first crush when I was 4 also and my daughter was 6 when she had her 1st crush. Completly normal!!

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  • I had my first kiss at 9

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  • footballgirl24

    are you sure?

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  • southernbarbie16

    Yes it's perfectly normal.

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  • It's just innocent puppy love

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  • Scaper

    Yea it's normal. As long as she isn't experimenting with se yet rofl

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    • footballgirl24

      wat do u mean?

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      • footballgirl24

        and guys i mean like kicking eachother n hes sittingn with his feet apart..love love...?

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