Is it normal to have varying degrees of affection?

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I have been noticing I can have a few days in a row where I want to be touched/really feel intense love for my girlfriend (4 months, fyi) which are immediately followed by days where I feel ambivalent towards her (not bad, just blank almost) and don't really want to be touched by anyone. (Our relationship is quite good, we don't fight and get along famously.) As I am female, I was wondering if anyone else gets these "cycles" of affection?

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    Seems normal.
    We can't just be all aroused every single day, like some porn star!
    If your GF is ok with it too, then no issue. Anyway its good to have a little break so as to build up in anticipation for the next big affection

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  • popperpop
    11 years ago

    I feel blanks towards many people then I go into my lovey dovey moods where I need to hug everyone I know. With time you ladies may get to know each other better where you could tell when you're feeling more affectionate than others. But you should also be open about how you feel as well, she's not a mindreader.

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