Is it normal to have trust issues w/ new bf

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okay about a year ago I was with this guy who i thought was perfect. until 4 months into the relationship he started to become unfaithful and was very abusive. Now 8 months after I ended it I am with a guy I dated a while back. I have a fear i might get hurt again. In some ways this new bf reminds me of my ex but at the same time he can be the complete opposite. Is this normal? How can I talk to him about how i feel?

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  • stillwondering
    13 years ago

    If you see red flags, don't ignore then!

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Thats what happens when guys screw us over. It sucks too even if we find an amazing guy we will still have trust issues for the longest time.

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    • BoredGuy
      13 years ago

      and vice versa.

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    It's normal, and if this new guy you're with is a keeper, then you should be able to tell him anything :-) Trust and honesty is what makes a strong relationship

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