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Is it normal to have trouble talking to girls that are run of the mill in looks? but not be intimidated by hot ones.
Heres the secret to women dude. They love attention no matter what. if you like them and they aren't attached do not hesitate. The REAL you wants to go up to her and say hello. Disregard any hesitation caused by fear. The fear is empty and has no power over you. Only the power you give it. You wont have game if you dont practice. Rejection is part of honing this skill as well. Dont fear that either. Be yourself. If you like yourself chances are she will tune into that and like you too. But you'll never know if you dont try. Even Michael Jordan sucked at basketball once upon a time.
Most likely you know you won't score with the uber hot ones, so it's like "Who cares, what have I got to lose". But the average, normal girls to you might actually be on your level so you nervous about talking to them because you do have something to lose.
This is most likely subconscious by the way. Just a thought.
You figure what have you got to lose with hot ones...it's like playing the lottery.
Man, it's normal. 40 % of guys can't talk to girls. Just be more self-confident, that's all.
hey dude don't listen to this ppl they are insane. telling you 'just be more self confident' fuck em. it's like telling a dog 'dont wave ur tail when ur happy' first of all if ur having trouble talking to girls, dumb ur nerd loser friends and hang out with good guys (not wanna be playboy bully assholes) who are confident talking to girls, they meet more girls than losers, therefore u will be meeting girls as well, and that's the first girls ull be improving ur self confidence. it is all about practice. its like d first time u played football, first u feel like an ass and scared of the football, a few days later ur trying to break the other team's legs. talk to any girl, but stay away from ugly twats. if u get used to talking only to ugly girls u might get stuck right there any be intimidated to talk to hot girls for the rest of ur life. when ure in ur death bed at 80 years of age i bet u dont wanna think about that hot horny piece of ass that you were too afraid to talk to right???? we only live ones dude so make sure you get the best piece of ass possible. ull get turned down, lots of times especially in d beginning, but rome wasn't built in a day eh? but it can be destroyed in a minute if the hot girls will be seeing u making out with the queen of the hideous girls. no girl would possibly want to be associated with a repulsive chick. go get some ass buddy
Of course is normal.
You don't have to give any woman power because they are beautiful or something. Stop thinking in that way!. Hot chicks have power only because guys give then power..
In fact if you approach a hot woman a she rejected you maybe she is making a mistake? Think about it.
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It will help anyone boost their confidence and will tell you the best places to meet girls or maybe even mrs's right.
I dont have that problem bro, but lotta my friends do so they do this:
They talk to them like any other grl and it works for them.
GOOD LUCK
It gets easier to do with practice and rejection happens less often and feels less personal with experience. Just don't hang out on a string with a girl either catch and cook that fish as soon as possible or kick her back in the water. you hold onto her for too long and she'll ultimately die and have to sink to the bottom of the river (no friend zone)
dude i have the same problem awsome. but i have learned to talk to some girls and becoming better. dude a tip look find something youre good at ... like anything. i am good at soccer and when i play i get compliments and those compliments boost my confident. and the more compliments you get the more confident probably. and then you might even be brave enough to go to say to the hottest chick and say ur ugly and i like youre friend better. lol awful story but i think you understanded the point.
That's because the "run of the mill girls" are less common to talk to so you might not think they're used to it.
It's normal, kinda. Usually I feel so great around "run of the mill" girls, but get horribly tongue tied around the angelically attractive ones, so I don't quite get you there. But I'm sure you have your reasons.
Sometimes its harder to talk to "average" girls instead of hot ones cuz you dont want em to come onto you lol
i think it's harder for you with normal girls becuse i guess they may seem a little more inteligent, i mean i don't assume if someones pritty that there dumb, you kinda just automaticaly assume there a little more one track based. damm i still sound like a jerk, i hope you know what i mean. and i am not implying that pritty girls a dumb.
I'm not sure that either of the responders actually read your question in its entirety, OP.
There is something unusual about average looking women causing you to feel more uncomfortable than obviously more attractive girls. The reverse is far more common with most men. That said; however, I think it is perfectly normal for you to have this reaction because for you; obviously, moderately attractive girls present something that attractive ladies do not. Is it the biting wit? The fact that you perceive them to have spent more time horning their personalities and sensibilities than their looks? Was your mother, first love, other significant ladies in your life etc, moderately attractive? There is significance to your reaction, I believe...but I do not think there is anything abnormal about it.
best of luck to you.
Talking to, or even approaching a girl, is often difficult for many men. It doesn't make you abnormal. If anything, it makes you normal. It almost always stems from a fear of rejection, something not too many people are quite fond of.
If it's a girl you don't know, then you should reassure yourself that you probably have nothing to lose, should she happen to shoot you down.
I can talk to any kind of girl. Just smoke weed. It'll make you not give a crap. I can just not care anytime.
I feel about the same. It's just that I don't even want to approach mediocre girls - why would I waste my time on them?!