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I find girls all the time to date me knowing I am bi. Then when we date the dont want me to be bi. I would like to get womens point of view....Thanks
Get a bf and hook up with girls..you sound gayer than bi to me. Simple solution.
hm. i could imagine that bi is not equal to bi.
maybe many of those girls imagine that you would enjoy another guy in the bedroom, maybe you sucking him hard before he does her...
but in reality they find out they'll have to "compete" for your attention with the other guys, because you'd be more likely to want that guy to do YOU after SHE sucks him hard.
Sorry for being graphic here, but i hope you understand what i mean? There could be a whole world of differences between the expectations they have and what you turn out to be.
ALSO, being bi does not automatically mean you have an open relationship. So if you are checking out other men while dating with her, it may not actually be an issue with you being bi, but rather with you checking out other goods.
I have always been a faithful man...I have question. Should I be open and keep lookin or pretend to be strait and go on the slide and find a quiet man to go down on occasionally?
Id be open. i've tried to date while pretending im not bi and its horribly hard. having to always be casious to not check out a guy here or not look a sertain way or not be as opinionated as i normally would. If cheating is what your getting at like CYE said, its not a good idea. but if your wanting to try out both worlds just keep it simple, stay straight and have fun :D
No not an open relationship....and as for sex.... yeah i would suck him hard and then watch him use her...
basically what i tried saying is that they may get something different than they expect- i don't know you, i don't know what kind of expression you give when getting to meet someone, i don't know how that may change while you date.
Maybe they expect you to NOT involve any other people with this, and be just with them for the time...and bring that up months later again, because they otherwise feel to not be enough for you?
Really, it's just a suggestion that you could review how you come across or how clearly you lay out what kind of a relationship you are looking for in the beginning.
I would say you should be open and honest and keep looking. Better to spend a long time to find someone just right, who you can be open with and who loves to partake in your excursions, rather than go the "easy" way of lying, then cheating, more lying, guilt, and never getting true satisfaction because you have to keep up your charade.
Competition....what a wonderful word. I finnally found a gal who was into it....We would meet a guy and blow him together.....It was fun... shes gone now.......lol fuck it.
I can imagine it would be tough for her, knowing that she can't satisfy you completely. She will always know that even if you are faithful, you want something more!
I can see that this is a difficult at times, but know one what to compete for you live and affection, when they cannot! As your friend and lover, they cannot compete with the opposite sex! Maybe it's not time yet for you to be serious yet with either till you decide who you have love for
ok i used to get the same from girls. i'm bi and when i would date them they'd be like why don't you just become a lesbain it would make life easier. you can't help what you are and who your attracked to. my bf at the moment doesn't care that i'm bi and loves the fact that i've been with other girls. i'm sure you'll find someone who doesn't care about the whole bi thing.
Well If I was into a guy who was Bi I'd like to think he's into girls at that time lol (Meaning me :P)