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Is it normal to have tonsurephobia and at the same time a hair fetish also?
Tonsurephobia - The morbid fear of cutting your hair.
Fear and arousal are said to be two sides of the same coin, so it's not unusual that the object of your fetish also provides the basis for your phobia.
Thanks. I've done lots of research on fetishes, and I've heard of people who had a traumatizing childhood experience with something - say, vomiting for example - and then grew up to fetishize the very thing that made them afraid. The human mind works in mysterious ways.
You can cure it by desensitization, which is gradual exposure to decrease your anxiety and increase your comfort level. Get someone you trust to help you.
I think these would go together. If you have a fetish for hair I dont think you would want to cut it.
Last night I dreamed I wanted to cut my hair in a pixie cut but they gave me a bob instead.
You don't want to cut your hair and you has a fetish for hair? Those two things seems to go hand in hand. Totally normal!