Is it normal to have to take control
me and my boyfriend are going too slow in my opinion, i feel i have to make all the major moves and hope he reacts. is it normal? (help?)
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me and my boyfriend are going too slow in my opinion, i feel i have to make all the major moves and hope he reacts. is it normal? (help?)
Going too slow as in havent had sex?
Sounds like he's insecure, talk to him about it! Hell, i'd probably be the same with a girlfriend, being a virgin and all. If she just brought it up and made me feel comfortable about taking charge, it'd probably do the job lol!
He probably thinks that's what you want, to be the decision maker and he's allowing you to do it. Either that or he doesn't give a shit. Maybe he doesn't even know that you feel that way.
Ive never had a boyfriend so i wouldnt know, but i think you should try to take control if you feel like that. Dont go too fast though