Is it normal to have to take control

me and my boyfriend are going too slow in my opinion, i feel i have to make all the major moves and hope he reacts. is it normal? (help?)

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  • Lovesexmanim15

    We like that a lot we don't have to do anything and it FEELS GOOD

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  • syx

    Going too slow as in havent had sex?
    Sounds like he's insecure, talk to him about it! Hell, i'd probably be the same with a girlfriend, being a virgin and all. If she just brought it up and made me feel comfortable about taking charge, it'd probably do the job lol!

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    • the_lost_girl

      lol thanks, but when it comes to slow, i mean real slow, he hasnt even made out with me and makes me feel like rubish, never looking at me as if im anything special

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  • BurnaBaby27

    He probably thinks that's what you want, to be the decision maker and he's allowing you to do it. Either that or he doesn't give a shit. Maybe he doesn't even know that you feel that way.

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  • Ive never had a boyfriend so i wouldnt know, but i think you should try to take control if you feel like that. Dont go too fast though

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