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I just can't romantically love someone I'm not physically attracted to AT ALL, no matter how attracted I'm to his personality. I think being a woman, I'm as much driven by my biology as by my mind. Without physical attraction, we can only share a friendly love.
It's normal. It's just not politically correct to say it out loud...which is bullshit. But for me, personality adds alot to appearance and the other way around. I wont fall in love with a girl who is pretty but acts like a dumb cunt from hell, but I can easily fall in love with someone who won't strike me as beautiful from the first moment but just rubs me the right way personality wise.
Will I fall in love with a morbidly obese girl? No. But she doesnt have to be a top model if she's got the right personality.
They call you Mr personality because you're so ugly...
*turds his shorts up**
What if he was physically perfect in every sense that you admired, but had a really ugly personality.
I learned the hard way to never judge, or date people for their looks. It's useless.
I know this sounds cliche, and I know that saying that also was cliche... but for me, the personality and the outlook that person has on life really is the deciding factor. I could care less if he looked like Frankenstein. (Who I think is kind of h-o-t)
I think initial attraction through physicality is important, then you go in deeper and if they have a killer personality too then BOOM. You're dang lucky.
I once dated the perfect girl for me. She had an outstanding personality, was nice, and was a good person. I wanted so much to fall in love with her. It never happened because I just wasn't physically attracted to her.
Yeah I'm the same way. I used to hate myself for it and try to date guys solely based on their personality and just get over myself but I was miserable trying to make myself essentially LOVE them. Especially knowing that some of those guys probably wouldn't have dated ME of I were unattractive to them. It's normal.