Is it normal to have this relationship w a ex?

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So I'll make this as short as possible and get to the point. So I have this ex who when at the time when we were goin out she was the one that dumped me and ignored me for a while after the breakup. I have her for a class and see her in a regular kinda basis, we started talkin again jus as "friends" little by little each time. When we hanged out she still kinda acted like we were still together & so would I kinda.. I beleive cause it's kinda hard to jus ditch or ignore the feelings that were once there and seem to still be there. Anyways now we hang out more often after class and go have sex,go for lunch or dinner and it seems like were kinda together again, jus with out the official title. I ain't about to ask her out again cause she dumped me and I was pretty hurt about it. I can tell she still has feelings and cares but I'm really confused, right when I was starting to get over her she comes along tellin me how she feels and have sex( for the first time after the breakup). Thought it's kinda weird because sometimes she will be nice to be and then turn into a bitch the next an jus mix me up on how to feel towards her. She makes it seem like she wants me then at times like she don't and completely shut me off. I jus wanna know if this type of relation w a ex is like healthy or not? I want to get completely over her but I can't seem to ... And idk if ladys could tell me what she's kinda up to or doing ... I'm jus really confused amd can't stop thinking about it. It's like WTF you know? You dump me but you still wanna hang out... I mean idk if she jus wants like a friends w benefits thing or idk.. It's fuckin w my head too much

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Yes its normal, and every young boy thinks they are in love with girls who put out. She is obviously much more mature than you and only wants friends with benefits. Learn to separate love and sex. If you can not do this, i suggest not sleeping with her anymore. If you can have great sex and not get to screwed up in your head, keep her along for the ride. Also make her call you for casual sex, don't call her. She knows where its at, let her know you don't need it, just want it

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  • da_stikman
    13 years ago

    Just keep banging her until she leaves. That's just what girls do homeboy. They just want to feel like they control you all the time. But they can't we just play their little girly games. Or she might just be trying to get u back you never know they are sneaky.lol

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  • petawawacouple69
    12 years ago

    She is comfortable with you but she's definitely not into you that much and she's happy sleeping with other guys. Shell have sex with you and then be a bitch the next day because it's her way of distancing you guys so she won't feel like she's cheating on you. Keep sleeping with her and sleep with other girls too. She's having fun you should too

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  • kit-kat-bar
    13 years ago

    I am a girl and I have done the same thing before. She is comfortable with you. I would be strait up with her if you really want an answer. I think that she is going to say " I like you but I just want to be friends" If its over then its over, shes not going to change her feelings over night and if she does then its not real, she only wants that control over you. Spend your time looking for someone else instead of wasting time with someone who doesn't want to be with you. If she really wanted you back she would have told you already, and honestly, not forced. I'm sure she likes you, she just doesn't rreeeaaaalllyy like you and you deserve someone who reeaallllyyy likes you!

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