Is it normal to have this problem?

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So I'm a twenty year old virgin and apparently my boyfriend is too. While dating, he was portraying that he is not a virgin anymore or hes this wild sex dude but then once we got official he came out w the truth that he is a virgin. I think he pretended to not be one because he was intimidated by me he said and said since you're sexy and seductive I don't want to look like the follower. But I wasn't mad maybe in the beginning cause nobody likes liars but I got over it and focused on losing our virginities. We are into each other emotionally so he even said it doesn't matter if he has sex w me cause that's not most important for me to you so I'm like okay good I guess so I don't feel pressured to lose it. However, I want to lose my virginity already and especially w him cause not only cause he's my bf but he's just really special to me plus we are affectionate we've done oral so I can't imagine how good it'll feel once we go all the way. The problem is we're both virgins so were kind of afraid well do something wrong. Is this normal ? What can I do ?! I really wanna have sex already but not if he's gonna have trouble.

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  • Dulse.
    11 years ago

    You're both virgins. Accept each other's inexperience and get down to it. No one seems to do anything quite like another expects in life.

    As long as you accept and love one another it should be a fun experience together. I hope this helps.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    Oh my gosh, so we tried yesterday and it wasn't total disaster but it was sooooooooo idk annoying? Why does it have to hurt!?!? boohooooo I am such a pain sucker, I am thinking of going to the doctor to break my hymen like its been suggested. My boyfriends like hell no dont do that but he doesn't understand that it's painful. For them its easier. I want to lose it so bad already but f&#$! Something is in the way! Literally! Rawr any other suggestions we can do other than going to the doctor? how about to make the pain less painful? ><

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    And the bleeding pain everyone talks about :( I don't know how two clueless virgins are gonna handle the pain and all

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    • NerdyChickFTW
      11 years ago

      Ahh, I'd like to apologize in advance if I sound a little vulgar, but it depends on the size of the man's penis and the tightness of the woman's vagina. The first guy I was with had a penis nearly 8 inches! It was a tight fit, but it really only hurts at first. Once you get into it, it starts to feel better and better. If you're sure about going through with it, discuss it with him and make sure you are both ready, and take the proper precautions. Have fun. Haha.

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