Is it normal to have these thoughts...?

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I am constantly observing things in the world, & I am slowly growing disgusted of it.
I know I haven't been on the right path on my past, but right now I'm stuck.
I'm only 17 & I feel like I'm thinking like an old lady.

when I listen to songs, & I'm listening to what they're actually saying, it disgusts me. the fact that people make it seem like sex is good? like it was MEANT to be thrown around like a normal everyday activity ? like if you're not having sex, giving head, etc., you're a loser/bad person/etc. ?
it really makes me think, & I get more & more sickened by it everytime I think about it.

at school, when people are getting pregnant every other day. when KIDS are talking about their favorite sex positions. when they're talking about their favorite sex partner. I mean the fact that they're having sex is one thing, but SEVERAL sex partners ? :\

then my own FRIENDS. my CLOSEST friends. I don't mind them telling me their stories. it's not gonna make me dislike them or anything, but I just can't help thinking about how slutty it is to go from man to man to man.

my question : is it normal to be this age & disagree with all my surroundings ?

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  • Bone1999
    13 years ago

    I'm 12 and I think that way. So don't be scared, you see the world as what it really is, a place littered with horror made by humans.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    THIS. I'm going through this right now; Everything bothers me, especially sex. Single mothers, cheaters, prostitute, strippers, EVERYTHING about this world bothers me so much nowadays that I actually get depressed over it :(

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  • JR(562)
    13 years ago

    Actually I think ur very mature to be thinking that way cuz ur right so many people today say ur uncool if u haven't had sex yet and things like that

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  • rocket
    13 years ago

    There is a lack of romance and love,caring in alot of today's media. It is shamefull young women have to put up with all the garbage

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    • RCSan
      13 years ago

      It's also shameful for young women to lower themselves so much. While women have come along way there are still others that are beginning to give our gender a bad name.

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  • yogibear70
    13 years ago

    Oh yea it's normal. Unless we're the only ones. I feel like I'm middle aged and kids these days are so uneducated about sex. I'm 21, and even when I was in high school, I used to look at all of our teen moms and just be in utter disgust. My cousin was a slut. And I mean slut. I know for fact she's been around the block quite frequently. And teens these days, yea, they think sex is all sorts of fun. Don't ask me why.. But. I know it's a problem in today's society, so no, its not just you

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  • lilylily
    12 years ago

    You maybe aren't typical, but you are very intelligent to know that one should only have sex with someone they actually love, not as an object. I get disgusted by it too, so don't worry. It's hard to feel this way now because your classmates don't understand, but honestly you'll be glad in the long run.

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  • godly
    13 years ago

    im 14 and and most of my girl peers have had sex... one time at the pool my friend was trying to get laid and he some how got 4 girls flirting with him at once.... they all wanted to know all of are penis sizes... i just start laughing with my other friend willim because of how sluty they were its bad now very very bad lol the funny thing is they came on to him first

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  • angelok11
    13 years ago

    I'm in the same boat with you. The world today has less morals and values, and they seem to diminish across populations every year, and it is quite saddening.

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  • JaqulynnRenee
    13 years ago

    honestly this sounds like i typed it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    omg wait until ur 30's, you'll wish u could just leave the planet ull have grown so disgusted by humanity. I hate to break it to you, it only gets worse from here on sunshine, so b4 u have a meltdown and wanna run in front of a bus from all the frustration with people, i suggest u learn to play the game and dont wear your heart on ur sleeve, they'll eat u alive. or do drugs to not think about it, like me!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Yes I have just recently turned 18 and for years I have slowly grown disgusted from the whole world. Now I am disgusted about everything because this world has taken the bad and wear it as pride and the good is shunned upon making it look as if being good is something stupid to do. You will turn into someone that thinks about everything you will become detached from emotions like I have but you will still understand everything about them you will probably know more about situations more than usual people do but you wont be able to feel emotional about it you wont become sad happy excited etc. Take it from someone who has been through and is still going through these stages.

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